So I am a bit torn as to how much maternity leave to take. I'm only like 6 weeks pregnant so have PLENTY of time to think about it, but it's something that has been on my mind.
I'm a surrogate for my sister and brother in law so I don't need time off to look after a new baby. However, I have had two c-sections so I will need another so will obviously need time to recover from that.
My company only offer standard maternity pay so I am entitled to 6 weeks at 90% of my pay and the SMP for however many weeks. I can't afford to drop down on to maternity pay so need to start working again once the 6 weeks is up.
I know that I will be able to work from home for a little while too as my job is mostly done on my laptop.
I was thinking of taking 2 weeks (out of the 6 weeks at 90% pay) before the baby arrives as experience has shown me that I get tired out towards the end, swollen ankles etc. I had to finish a little earlier than planned with both my boys. Then using the remaining 4 weeks at 90% pay to actually recover from the c-section at home. And then officially starting back working, but doing it from home for 2 weeks. That would take me up to the 6 week check up that I would need to get from the doctor before I am covered by my insurance to drive again (I live 20 miles away from the office).
Do you think it would be cheeky to take the full 6 weeks at 90% pay? Part of me thinks yes but I know it's going to probably be quite emotional and I think spending time at home with my husband and my two boys will help with any emotional ups and downs I might feel.
How long would you take if you were in the same situation?
I'm a surrogate for my sister and brother in law so I don't need time off to look after a new baby. However, I have had two c-sections so I will need another so will obviously need time to recover from that.
My company only offer standard maternity pay so I am entitled to 6 weeks at 90% of my pay and the SMP for however many weeks. I can't afford to drop down on to maternity pay so need to start working again once the 6 weeks is up.
I know that I will be able to work from home for a little while too as my job is mostly done on my laptop.
I was thinking of taking 2 weeks (out of the 6 weeks at 90% pay) before the baby arrives as experience has shown me that I get tired out towards the end, swollen ankles etc. I had to finish a little earlier than planned with both my boys. Then using the remaining 4 weeks at 90% pay to actually recover from the c-section at home. And then officially starting back working, but doing it from home for 2 weeks. That would take me up to the 6 week check up that I would need to get from the doctor before I am covered by my insurance to drive again (I live 20 miles away from the office).
Do you think it would be cheeky to take the full 6 weeks at 90% pay? Part of me thinks yes but I know it's going to probably be quite emotional and I think spending time at home with my husband and my two boys will help with any emotional ups and downs I might feel.
How long would you take if you were in the same situation?