hi i need a bit of advice please. i was with my dd's father for a year when i fell pg with her when i told him his reply was 'well its not mine ive had the snip were over' (i was faithfull to him) it has now been proved by DNA testing that he is her father, he has still never seen her and doesnt want to which is fine by me as i got together with my df whilst i was pg with dd and he has took her on as his own he was there at her birth df loves her to pieces and would do anything for her and she is the same with him she is such a daddys girl problem is my exs family have now decided since getting the dna results that they want to see her df is backing any decision i make as we knew it was a possibility it could happen only problem is i dont want them too see her i feel it will only confuse her when she gets older she has a great family network with mine and my df family but if i dont let them see her im denying exes mum and dad of theis grand daughter which i dont want to do they keep asking for her to take her on days out etc but im just not comfartable with that idea and they wont see her whilst im there with her they want her on her own and i just cant do that she doesnt even know them any suggestions on what to do would be greatly appreciated thanks. xx