yes, I guess we can say we are the lucky ones...my beloved is a passionate and paternal man, and I notice he holds my stare more, and more when we make love, he is always tender, but kisses and holds me for long periods at a time, he massages my breasts because they hurt and are growing faster than my belly, and he is tender all the time,..the lusty part is always there, but we have a good mix, your a lucky woman..he loves you....