Corrinne37
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Hi girls,
I bumped into two old friends yesterday in the park.
One was pregnant and due the same time as the first baby i lost - her baby is now 15mths.
the other friend was pregnant and due the same time as the 2nd baby I lost - her baby is now 4 months old. They are good friends with each other and used to be with me.
After my 2nd miscarriage, I did distance myself from the weekly baby and toddler group where we all met and used to meet up and then go for coffee etc .
It all become too much for me as pretty much all the mums were on their second baby.
So I bumped into these girls yesterday, and it had been awhile. But i was pleased to see them and thought we would have a chat, and say hi , how have you been etc.
They both said hello, said hello to my little boy, commented on how he had grown and then went straight back into conversation with each other! Blanking me!
I felt really hurt and put out by this.
Do you think they felt awkward as they know of my situation, they were there with their kids, do you think they pity me??
I bumped into two old friends yesterday in the park.
One was pregnant and due the same time as the first baby i lost - her baby is now 15mths.
the other friend was pregnant and due the same time as the 2nd baby I lost - her baby is now 4 months old. They are good friends with each other and used to be with me.
After my 2nd miscarriage, I did distance myself from the weekly baby and toddler group where we all met and used to meet up and then go for coffee etc .
It all become too much for me as pretty much all the mums were on their second baby.
So I bumped into these girls yesterday, and it had been awhile. But i was pleased to see them and thought we would have a chat, and say hi , how have you been etc.
They both said hello, said hello to my little boy, commented on how he had grown and then went straight back into conversation with each other! Blanking me!
I felt really hurt and put out by this.
Do you think they felt awkward as they know of my situation, they were there with their kids, do you think they pity me??