I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage at my second scan last Friday when I was supposed to be 12 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I'm 31 and was pregnant for the first time. We went for the first scan when I was 9 weeks and 4 days. Everything was normal, the foetus had a strong heartbeat and was moving around a lot. There was so much energy happening in my belly. It measured 2,8 cm. We were so excited to go to the second scan as we thought we made the 3 most crucial months. As soon as I saw the foetus on the screen I knew there was something wrong. There was no movement at all, I didn't hear a heartbeat and It only measured 2,9 cm which means it probably died on the same day of my first scan or the day after. I was and I'm still absolutely devastated. I had a D&C on the same day and I just feel so empty and sad. We have brought the foetus to a laboratory immediately after my D&C to understand what happened. I've got so many questions and worries..... Is there a genetic problem with me? Will I be able to get pregnant again? And how soon? And if I get pregnant again I don't want to freak out and enjoy my pregnancy which will be so hard after what I've experienced. What's the risk of having a recurrent miscarriage? I see different figures on the internet everywhere. My doctor said I still have the same risk at my second pregnancy which is 30% (I never realised there was so much risk!), some research papers say that the risk will decrease as my body is now more prepared for pregnancy and others say it will increase. I'm really lost. I've been on quite a few forums to see what other women have experienced, to understand the causes and to discover how the future looks like and it seems that many women have experienced a missed miscarriage whilst research mentions only 1% missed miscarriages. Is there anyone here who has had a successful pregnancy afterwards? And if so, did you need a treatment for it? Did you find out what happened? Apologies for all my questions, but I see and hear so many figures that I'm feeling even worse as there doesn't seem to be a clear answer. I need to work on being positive again but it's very hard because it's still so fresh on my mind. Physically I'm ok I think but I'm a mental wreck.... Thank you for your reactions and I hope that everyone who had a miscarriage has had successful pregnancies afterwards x