iv had a revelation

[Sarah&Braydon]

and it is not a good one!!

i have realised i have no friends, its my birthday tomoz, and i am doing nothing, i have 2 friends one is in ireland on holiday, the other one was due last wed so obv cant do anything, all my friends are on here, the ones i feel i can talk to, i mean how sad the only people i can talk to are on here.
at work no one really speaks to me i have 2 people out of 50 odd that try to speak to me the rest do coz im the bosses daughter to try and get in her good books.
and then as everyone knows Bray has chicken pox and is really suffering yet he doesnt want me at all i have tried my hardest i really have to look after him made sure he has his creams on has medcine if he needs it given him loads of hugs etc and yet all he wants is my dad, as soon as my dad comes home from work i am no longer needed all he wants is dad wont give me a cuddle or nething .

i feel really terrible infact im sat here crying how stupid, i feel if i was to walk of the face of the world no one would actually realise

 

[Babylicious]

I'd miss you if you wasn#t around hun

 

[Strangeness]

Awww hun I used to feel exactly the same way. All of my old friends weren't interested in me anymore cos I had my baby so I never saw anyone. Best thing I ever did was get a job in a supermarket! Most people are around my age and I have tons of friends! I've been on more nights out in 3 months than I have in 3 years!

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

I know exactly how you feel hun, as I dont have any friends near me atall. I have a couple of close friends who live 200 miles away, but I dont have anyone I can hang out with or anything.

We've actually just signed up for evening art classes, a chance to do something creative, break the week up a bit and socialise. Maybe you could do something similiar? If arts not your thing theres so so many different types of classes you could do - I'm sure your dad wouldnt mind babysitting for a couple of hours once a week and they are surprisingly cheap (one we've just signed up for is £5 a time pay weekly).

Hope you feel better soon, and Braydon feels better too

 

[Becksss]

Aww im same as well
my true best friend ever lives back in kent

i have someppl i use shhhh
well thats just ppl i txt or somethin if i dnt wanna do something alone
but theres only 2 of them n 1s in canada forages
visiting her babies dad who she shuldnt of got back wit
but meh i wish chubb could move here
forum is my live aswell
good job we goin 2 the meet then init sarah

 

[Robyn_]

i can see its going to be the same for me
some of my friends have already turned their nose up at me
and i cant be doing with it,
at least you do have people to talk to hunni, we are all here to talk and stuff,
and thats what meets are for to meet with people and get to know them and stuff,

its a shame most of us all live so far away from each other

i hope you have a good birthday hunni

 

[lillou]

aw hun, i felt like this a while ago, but its better to have that 2 real friends than a load of people who arent true friends
x x x x

 

[MakkaP]

Awww, Im sorry to hear that, You should definatley look into groups to take B to, kindergym, rising 2's etc, you'll meet loads of people with lots in common with you.

 

[SarahH]

Have a birthday celebration night out once your friend gets back from Ireland. And GGG's idea of joining some groups sound good.

I am sort of the same - I mean I do have loads of friends but they are all still single or are students and they are out every weekend and usually give me a days notice to try get a baby sitter not easy!!

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

thanks girls dunno wot id do without u guys

 

[katyk]

hi just to say that if you're on benefits, most evening classes at colleges etc are freeeeeee/very reduced price.

I have no friends lol but really enjoyed the meet, my first proper mingling in ages! We'll just to have more meets round the country and local girls meet it each other regularly perhaps too.

Lots of people are in the same boat- you just don't realise the amount of people who are, as obviously thejavascript:emoticon('')y're in rather than out. Telly also creates a false impression as most people on there have loads of friends

It can be very depressing. But as soon as you have one mingling planned or have just had one, it really gives you a boost

Some people in my road have a bbq and invite the whole street, it's on this weekend so I may drop in for a bit.

Keep an eye out for things that are on locally and join more forums for like minded people.

The trick is to do a bit of mingling, but don't do more than you enjoy/stay much longer than you want. It's just for fun rather than something you 'should' be doing. Goood luck

Having said all this I'm in the same position myself so don't have all the answers I don't think many people are good at making friends easily etc, it just seems like it because the ones that are, are the chattiest and most outgoing so you hear what they're getting upto.

 

[tracey 2]

hey sarah, come here think you need some hugs

listen hun i dont like it when your down hun, come on lets go out one night go for a drink or something can for your bithday weekend if you want hun!

i can easily come down near you and we should do something, il text you hun maybe sort something out,

p.s- your a fab mum hun, im gonna get so many tips off you as i can when we meet then maybe might be as fab as you are

hope your ok hun

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

Tracey thank u so much hun i can not tell u how much that means to me, im sat here crying, ur such a great friend!!
id love to go out this weekend but due to Bray being poorly i cant leave him he is still crying constantly but we will deffo meet up sometime, i cant wait to meet u hun ur always there and know how to make me feel better
thank u so much

 

[Emmylou]

Awww hun, I am so sorry that you are feeling so unhappy, I hope Braydon is better soon, try not to take it too personally that he wants to cuddle your dad, I get upset when Libby gets more excited around her daddy than me, but I guess its because she hasn't seen him all day so its an exciting time for her, maybe Braydon feels the same?

As for no-one to celebrate your birthday with, I don't think any of my 'friends' will remember mine either so I can join on that one, they didn't last year until I told them that was why I was trying to arrange a lunch for everyone - then only 4 people turned up

Having 2 amazing friends is so much better than having 15 'so called' friends!

You are a marvellous mummy, and a great person, try to remember that whenever you are feeling down.

 

[tracey 2]

oh sarah, what you like hun, love you loads hun and B as well.

you know im always here on end of the phone ring or text anytime hun, we will sort something out.

just gonna send you PM dont have much cred left on my phone.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

thanks hun recieved and replied even sent u a text to haha

 

If I lived closer hun i'd be round with a birthday card and pressie