Gemma & Jake
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Hi well we have our boys name and I think I am having a boy but if we do have a girl the only name we both really love is a name that has already been used in the family by my cousins 11 year old daughter. I probably only see my cousin about once every six months at things like family functions and I don't think she would mind. I don't know if my auntie would think it is a bit weird as she is my cousins step mum and obviously sees her a lot more than I do and I also see my auntie quite a lot so she would see both children with the same name. Do you think it would be too confusing and unfair to use the name or do you think that if it is the only name we love then we should just use it and they will have to get used to it? I think the trouble is I have a huge family and all the nice names have already been used. Also if you do think I should use it should I call my cousin and put it past her first? Aaargh I am stressing out!