Is it ok for me to join please

[Astrapi]

hi everyone

My name is Mel and I am currently 29+4 weeks pregnant. I don't have a good time with pregnancy (instead of cherishing every moment I am constantly stressed and worried), this is because I have been unfortunate to have 2 still births (1 at 31+2 and the other at 24 weeks).

My EDD is February 11th but my consultant and I are aiming for 37+4 which is 8 weeks today and this will be via c-section due to my bad history with pregnancy. I do a lot of pretending to be an ostrich (burying my head in the sand lol) this is my way of coping.

This will be my last pregnancy and I am trying my hardest to be positive but it's difficult most of the time. I'm not yet convinced that this baby will be coming home.

I'm sorry that my first post on this forum is a big downer. I will do my best to stay as positive as I can when posting here.

I hope everyone else are having fantastic pregnancies.

xxxx

 

[positivity :)]

Hi mel,

I'm really sorry to hear of your losses, I can't imagine how difficult that must be. The girls here in tri 3 are all amazing and you will find lots of support, we all chat about all of our worries so feel free to do the same. And welcome to tri 3 xx

 

[SarahJane88]

Hey, welcome to tri 3. xxxxxx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Welcome to Tri 3! So sorry to hear about your past! You'll settle right in here, we don't mind if you have a moan either!

 

[Astrapi]

Thank you ladies, I appreciate all of your responses and I look forward to joining in with the chat on here

xx

 

[Dee83]

So sorry to hear of your losses hun. This is a great place to get worries off your chest, have a moan, get advice or just have a chat and a giggle - the girls are all great, it's been a godsend to me! Welcome to Tri3 xxx

 

[vickib_1984]

Hello and welcOme so sorry to hear your history xxx

 

[Cazza]

Oh Mel what a terrible time you've had hunny xx

Glad to hear everything is going well and they are keeping an eye on you both.

Welcome to Tri 3 !!

 

[TiffanyJaynexo]

Welcome to tri3 hun, I'm so sorry to hear of your losses, that must be so awful
Good luck for the rest of your pregnancy! xxx

 

[Olive]

Hi hun,

I am so sorry to hear about your losses. It must have been incredibly hard for you and your OH. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. We're all here to support you

xx

 

[star fish]

Hi sweetie.

I can't even begin to imagine how hard that has been for you. We are definitely here for support and for any problem big or small. xxx

 

[Rachaellius]

Welcome to Tri 3 hun. I hope we can be of some support to you x

 

[kerry5a]

Welcome to tri 3. How we can help take some of the worry away for you x

 

[Princess81]

Welcome to tri3. Sorry you've had such an awful time in the past. I'm glad your consultant is taking good care of you x

 

[Mrs. KM]

Welcome to Tri 3! Sorry to hear about your losses. Big hugs! xx

 

[1stbump]

Hi hunni

Welcome to tri 3. So sorry to hear your previous pregnancies were so upsetting for u.

Will be thinking of you lots as this one progresses xx