Hi ladies, I've not spoken about this yet, so this is my first baby step.
Shortly before I found out I was pregnant me and my OH split up, we got into a bad place with a lot of stress and sadness, lord knows we tried our bests to get out of it we did but sadly we couldn't. We had stopped TTC a month before the split so I was convinced I wasn't pregnant, I decided right focus on me my daughter and work.. 5 days after the split I found out we're expecting ! We're over the moon proudest man and woman in the world.
So for our family's sake we tried to give it a go again but somehow our problems were bigger but we gave it our all trying again until it broke us, we decided that level of sadness wasn't healthy for my daughter me our baby or him and went our separate ways for good and I can say I genuinely felt relief .. not from him .. from the struggles of us being together.. we agreed it's about the kids and that's it. Of course there's emotions but for their sake they need to be taken away if that makes sense.
I've been a single mum .. I actually liked it a lot stepping up to the plate with my daughter being her mum and dad ( he chose not to be involved ) made me the strong woman I am but right now I can't help but feel lost.. you know when you wake up from a nap and you're confused and wondering why that person isn't there .. I'm heartbroken and confused .. I know there will come that day after a long while where I just wake up finally better and not lost I've been heartbroken before.
I know what we've done is for he best, and sadly there isn't a way back I can make peace with that. But I wanted to know if any other mums or mums to be have gone through the same or simular ? I'd love to hear from you
While I spend the next 6 months watching Bridget jones on repeat ������
Shortly before I found out I was pregnant me and my OH split up, we got into a bad place with a lot of stress and sadness, lord knows we tried our bests to get out of it we did but sadly we couldn't. We had stopped TTC a month before the split so I was convinced I wasn't pregnant, I decided right focus on me my daughter and work.. 5 days after the split I found out we're expecting ! We're over the moon proudest man and woman in the world.
So for our family's sake we tried to give it a go again but somehow our problems were bigger but we gave it our all trying again until it broke us, we decided that level of sadness wasn't healthy for my daughter me our baby or him and went our separate ways for good and I can say I genuinely felt relief .. not from him .. from the struggles of us being together.. we agreed it's about the kids and that's it. Of course there's emotions but for their sake they need to be taken away if that makes sense.
I've been a single mum .. I actually liked it a lot stepping up to the plate with my daughter being her mum and dad ( he chose not to be involved ) made me the strong woman I am but right now I can't help but feel lost.. you know when you wake up from a nap and you're confused and wondering why that person isn't there .. I'm heartbroken and confused .. I know there will come that day after a long while where I just wake up finally better and not lost I've been heartbroken before.
I know what we've done is for he best, and sadly there isn't a way back I can make peace with that. But I wanted to know if any other mums or mums to be have gone through the same or simular ? I'd love to hear from you
While I spend the next 6 months watching Bridget jones on repeat ������
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