intimate question

[rachie29]

just as i appear to be getting my mojo back my dear OH seems to be put off slightly....

When I mentioned it the other night he said well you are getting very pregnant.... we are still very affectionate lots of kisses and cuddles but i think my rapidly expanding bump is putting him off...

has this happened to anyone else?

 

[kellie80]

My OH wouldn't come near me from being about 4 months pregnant!

 

[annem]

well i can count how many times on one hand!!

My OH has been totally put off since i've been preg as i miscarried after sex last year and he believed it was his fault-you can't tell him other wise!

Its horrible as i'm dying for it!!

 

[rachie29]

I dont think your alone ...my OH hasnt stopped but has mentioned a couple times about it seeming weird lol. He knows he cant harm demonseed but I think if the thought gets in thier head before sex its kinda ruins it ya know lol...just like if you have ever been pleasuring yourself and all of a sudden an image of bungle the fat gay bear in rainbow invades your session has happened to me Im like WTF ...it kinda puts you off lol.

Dont know what to suggest really its not you or your bump its the thought of his baby that is probably stopping him. Try making sex more spontaneous that way he wont have time to think about it before hand. Worth a try anyway...hope you get some action soon xxx

i have never thought of bungle before.. now thats some sound contraception advice though!! ha ha...

i went back to bed after original post and jumped OH... so he had no choice, first time in a while... i got mine yay!!

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

we never had this problem , could you maybe look up sex during preg on the net and show him theres no harm by it... or like midna says do it spontaniously what guy would tell you to stop

 

[lisa&alex]

alex touches the bump when we are at it.. that kinda freaks me out..suppose he just must think its a huge boob or something lol..

 

[ella]

We very rarely do it now, David is totally weird about the fact there is a baby there, sometimes he can forget about it but not often.

 

[Babylicious]

Mines the same now and I'm fed up already

 

[susie]

we tend to be more cuddly now for the last few weeks as we both feel slightly wierd, but to be honest i'm really knackered anyway and so is he

 

[Flossy82]

I think i avoided it during the first few months then it only slightly returned nearer the end

 

[fynemum]

Must be the mad sex drive you get in your 30's ++ We are still at it like rabbits...... nothing puts us off....

But i think it's because we know it doesn't do any harm... and well can even help speed things up in the last few days

Just relax and enjoy each other.... Lv Yvonne xx

 

[hotluck]

I have to admit that my sex drive is probably worse since becoming pregnant. I seem to be horny 90% of the time

OH hasn't been bothered by it as it means more fun for him

 

[Squiglet]

We very rarely do it now, David is totally weird about the fact there is a baby there, sometimes he can forget about it but not often.

My DH is the same really... but he's more worried that he might hurt me or the baby....