In limboland

[Phillipa]

Afternoon lovely ladies, hope we are all doing well

After my MC nearly 4 weeks ago, I am pretty sure I O'd at some point over the weekend of the 21st/22nd of April. Had a near positive test (I might've missed a day of testing) but my hubby and I have BD'd every other day around the days before and after. I've roughed it out that I'm maybe around 8dpo today, my CM has gone back to normal so I know it happened just can't pinpoint the exact day.

So from my approximate calculations, I should be due AF (hopefully not though!!) on Saturday 5th May.

I did do a cheap Clear and Simple test a couple of days ago, before I roughed out my dates and I though I saw a very very faint line (if I shone a light from behind). Not getting my hopes up yet, got a FRER to do in a few days and a couple of cheap ones to do if I get impatient!

Now it's all a manic waiting game to see what happens!

How is everyone else doing at the moment?

xx

 

[CI1979]

Hi Phillipa,

I am right behind you thinking I ovulate on the 23rd so now waiting to do a test. AD due 6th ��
Is it possible to test now? I didn't realise I could and do have a couple of years sitting around at home. Absolutely itching to do one but also want to delay the disappointment!
Why is it so tough!!?

When will you try another test?
Xxx

 

[CI1979]

*AF not AD... damn predictive text

 

[CI1979]

Argghhhh test not years!!! Sorry!

 

[Phillipa]

Hi Phillipa,

I am right behind you thinking I ovulate on the 23rd so now waiting to do a test. AD due 6th ��
Is it possible to test now? I didn't realise I could and do have a couple of years sitting around at home. Absolutely itching to do one but also want to delay the disappointment!
Why is it so tough!!?

When will you try another test?
Xxx

Hey there, I caved this afternoon and did one of my FRER's...I though I saw something when the pee was moving up the window, albeit SUPER faint. Waited for it to completely dry and thought I could still see something, so took it apart and there is a line with pink in it! I'm not getting too excited as it could be an EVAP (hope not!) but here's a couple of pics, what do you think? I've had a FRER with the indent in it, in the past and I'm certain it's not that.
Let me know if you POAS! xx

 

[Sunflower1]

Looks like a BFP to me!!!!!

 

[CI1979]

I can definitely see a faint line, but I don't have any experience in this as I've only ever had negative tests to date. I've got my fingers crossed for you, maybe try one tomorrow morning and see if it makes a differemce. I'm going to try one tomorrow as I just can't wait and going on holiday Thursday so want to avoid having the odd cocktail if there's a chance I could be in the early stages. It's so frustrating not knowing straight away!

 

[Sydney]

Argghhhh test not years!!! Sorry!

Just so you know you can edit your original post to correct mistakes

I see a line in those photos too! Fingers crossed and keep us posted!

 

[Phillipa]

I'll be doing another test (or two!!) tomorrow morning, so will let you know what happens! xx

 

[Sydney]

I'll be doing another test (or two!!) tomorrow morning, so will let you know what happens! xx

Exciting! x

 

[CI1979]

I'll be doing another test (or two!!) tomorrow morning, so will let you know what happens! xx

Good luck!! I'll also test tomorrow then Big fingers crossed xxx

 

[SmithyBaby]

Good luck! I had my bfp yesterday although I had a very very faint positive the day before! I think we ovulated around the same time. I was awaiting AF since my CP in March and decided to POAS early but turns out we caught again straight away! Lots and lots of dust for you and fx you get your bfp like I did. I can see something so I am hoping its a sneaky one like mine

 

[Phillipa]

Good luck! I had my bfp yesterday although I had a very very faint positive the day before! I think we ovulated around the same time. I was awaiting AF since my CP in March and decided to POAS early but turns out we caught again straight away! Lots and lots of dust for you and fx you get your bfp like I did. I can see something so I am hoping its a sneaky one like mine

Wow congrats SmithyBaby! :-D Hope it all goes well for you! xx
I want to go to bed already so I can test, I only have 2 left so will have to pick up some more when I go to town tomorrow.

 

[SmithyBaby]

Good luck! I had my bfp yesterday although I had a very very faint positive the day before! I think we ovulated around the same time. I was awaiting AF since my CP in March and decided to POAS early but turns out we caught again straight away! Lots and lots of dust for you and fx you get your bfp like I did. I can see something so I am hoping its a sneaky one like mine

Wow congrats SmithyBaby! :-D Hope it all goes well for you! xx
I want to go to bed already so I can test, I only have 2 left so will have to pick up some more when I go to town tomorrow.

I hope it is a BFP for you! Keep us updated

 

[Phillipa]

Well after doing 2 tests this morning, one FRER and one Clear and Simple, they both came up negative so at this point, I'm assuming they were evaps??
Got some more today so will test again on Thursday or Friday morning with some cheap tests again.

Wish I knew what was going on!

 

[CI1979]

That's so frustrating! Fx you get a bfp later this week. So difficult the not knowing bit. I'm also in this stage, had what I think is a positive this morning but can't be sure and as only 8dpo will have to continue testing. And then you're faced with hoping the little bean holds on and sits tight if yoi do get a bfp. Swear I'm going greyer by the week!!
Really hoping you get your bfp with the next test.
I'm making this harder by not telling anyone even my other half, we agreed to try but not try and see what happens but is always harder for the women as out body doesn't shut off so we're always looking out for the symptons. Would hate other half to get his hopes up and would rather I am left disappointed and I save him the heartache but is quite isolating too. So glad I found this forum!! Xxx