Impatient...anyone else want to join the impatient train?

[littlemonster]

I'm trying to be calm and cool and just relax about it. I have health issues so TTCing can't be moved up any sooner than it already has been (Jan 13th we wait to find out if we can or not). However SO tells me as soon as I want to go off birth control that he is more than totally fine with it, he would be ecstatic!
I'm a type 1 diabetic and I have to wait to make sure the risk of complications (birth defects, miscarriage, large baby, etc) way down before we can try. Right now the risk is high and he just isn't helping!
Other things that don't help:
Seeing new born babies
Going to get my DD's diapers because they're at Babies R Us
Seeing pregnant ladies...

Is it January yet?
Anyone else getting a horrible awful case of baby fever?

 

[Mrs M]

I've never had to wait for anything before so this is killing me! I am however waiting now for another 6 and a little bit months so plenty time to drive myself wild!

 

[littlemonster]

I want to buy baby stuff, but it's too soon! It's driving me crazy!

 

[Mrs M]

You're so close! I think knowing you're close is even harder!

For no 2, we were waiting until the end of September to try, and mid August we had an accident so I said to dh we might as well just try now cos it might be too late! Lol! I caught that month too! Ha ha! SO I didn't have the last 6 weeks of the countdown! It was great! First time round though I had to wait for about 3 years!

 

[littlemonster]

I'm trying to take a step back and find anything else to do except think about it! I want to go eat some cake! LOL

 

[AngelLily]

I'm totally impatient. We aren't TTC until August It feels so far away but we want to get married before we TTC again.

I also want to spend loads of time with DS before getting pregnant again however the broodiness and "need" to be pregnant just won't shift.

 

[Mrs M]

It's a really funny feeling isn't it! For me it's almost like a craving! But I also want a little more time with my 2 babies before another one joins the fold! I am however getting the house ready for another as we speak! Spare room full of sellable stuff so trying to get my butt into gear, and make some money while I'm at it!!

 

[AngelLily]

I know exactly what you mean! I'm craving another pregnancy, OH doesn't understand though!

I've already starting picking names for the next one, deciding to go team yellow this time and thinking about moving arrangements.

 

[Loula]

Id love another and cant wait to ttc but the tantrums my dd is having right puts me off wanting a bugger age gap.

Me and oh have decided on names obviously not 100% and he dont want to find out where I do.

 

[Mrs M]

I've picked names! Ha ha! I think I should be the driver of this impatient train - we'd all be there a bit quicker if it was down to me! Lol! But we're waiting for the right reasons - this is what I keep telling myself anyway!

 

[littlemonster]

Well we just had a major set back, so now we can add on year on to the wait time...I plan on torturing him though LOL His baby fever is worse than mine!

 

[Loula]

How comes youve added anothrr year?

 

[Mrs M]

Oh no! Hope you're not too disappointed. I added 4/5 months to mine and I have to say it has passed ok so far.

Plan a holiday for the summer so you have something to look forward to. Then it'll only be 6 months to wait after it!

 

[littlemonster]

We have major financial issues that have come up and SO is stressed out to the max over it. If we wait then we will be where we need to be, plus it gives me more time to ensure my diabetes is under super tight control and I have some educational opportunities for diabetes that I can go to so I also get extra resources.
I'm disappointed, but we will start trying when it's right and that's the biggest thing for us right now.
We will be doing a vacation and some other stuff we won't be able to later on. So it's okay. It sucks, but we will live.