Eryinera
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I thought I was doing well just waiting for hubby to get his head around things and maybe try again. But today I don't know why I just broke down. I just I've cone to the realisation that it may never happen. I feel so upset I actually feel like I'm going to be sick. I have zero interest in anything at the moment. The only thing in my mind is seeing so much baby related things and my heart feel physically shattered. I know I'll be ok in an hour and laugh at myself but these waves keep happening. Both my angels have stolen a piece of my heart and that piece will always be missing. I just left my fertile time for this month so I think that's what had got me - the first month in nearly a year we havnt been trying pregnant or misscarrying. We won't be having kids after I've turned 30 so if anything was going to happen there are only 9 more attempts and I doubt hubby will change his mind in the near future and if we try to avoid Xmas then the attempts dwindle even more. So I guess this is me. Facing facts. I'm not going to be a mum again. And if that is the case im in the mind set that I dunno I want things to be final I sort of want to tell the doctor to take everything away so I just can't have one. I don't like false hope it's been a bitch to me. Currently I'm not even a fan of hope. I just want the world to go away and to stop tormenting me.