im so peeeved off its unreal!!

[XbabygirlshelliX]

sorry im posting again

just had a visit off a cousin (long way dwn line) n shes got a lil girl who is soon to be one n is pregnant again with her second n yet she never has the child shes got!! the child doesnt settle with her or nething she sits at home most days n the child isnt there she never got up with her through night or nething her mam has allways got the bain n the bain even crys to go to them cos she doesnt reaalise who her parents are i think!! its so pissed me off cos if she cant cope with the child shes gone why should she have another!! if her mam wnt have the child she got she threatens that she wont see her grandchild again!!! its really pissed me off cos theres amazing people like u all in this forum dying to have lil miracles n she uses em just for fucking fun!!

sorry about the rant but my blood is boiling over it!!

 

[scottishlassie]

ahh hun, that doesnt sound good. i know there are some people like that out there, and it is annoying that they don't seem bothered about the children they bring into the world - especially when we are all trying really hard to have a wee baba, and we have so much love to give to them.

i dont really know what to say, i just wanted you to know that i read your post, and understand what you mean..

Hope you are okay, try and not think about it too much (i know its easier said than done!), look forward to when you get your BFP and you have your wee yin and how happy you will be that your going to give your child a great life

x

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

it just makes me so mad cos theres so many people who are told hey cant have children n then people just seems to have them for the sheer fun of it!! i just so mad n my bfp wont ever turn up lol i posted my symptoms on another thread but already had a bfn this month starting feel like never going to happen as only feel sicky today but possibly cud just be hungry got slight headache n feel real lethargic

thankyou for replying loads of babydust your way xxx

 

[Zoziebubly]

I no what you mean!
My cousin, A) has a drug problem B) Has had one child taken away from her C) had another one to replace the first one.
She doesn't treat her children like children they are just a means to an end for her.
drives me mad!!!

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

it seriously meks my blood boil if they cant handle kids or want to give the children everything n focus on the children n obviously they shouldnt have them its unfair on the children n how are the children gunna feel when they are older ooo mam why did u have me then not bother! grrrr

ps how do i change my name on here??

 

[Zoziebubly]

I know, Its so harsh! I cant even stand to be near my cousin. she knows hoe i feel and thats that.
Doesnt stop her dangling her baby infront of me when ever i see her though.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Not sure how to change your name.....Ask a moderator??

 

[LouLou1986]

upsets me to

 

[Sam's Mum]

ps how do i change my name on here??

Only admin can change names on here if there's a good reason for wanting it changed. If you start a thread in the Ask A Moderator section with a reason and what you'd like it changed to I'll make sure admin see it x

 

[XbabygirlshelliX]

thankyou xx