Im not sure what

[Chrissi87]

it is i want, my ex wants to get back with me and i have thought about it over and over again.... i do want us too but im worried about him leaving me (he dint leave me last time, i ended it), i have to consider my son as well and he does like this man very much.

Im also worried about how my 'friends' will react when i say me and ex are bk again (yes sarah (chocoholic), im talking to you lol soi'l be expecting a lecture!!)

He stayed over mine last night and things got a bit steamy, now im wondering of i did the right thing or not

he has neva cheated on me but seems to think a bit more of his friends and work than me when we were togetha.

please help!! what should i do??

 

[dannii87]

Hi Chrissi

I was in a bit of a similar predicament but for me, I decided to leave it before anything started up again as I haven't even met my daughter yet and wanted to establish a relationship with her first!

If I were in your position, I'd probably keep things really slow. If things progress at some point in the future then great! You can then introduce him slowly to your son, and if they don't work out, you haven't lost out on anything and your son won't be attached or anything like that.

But... Most importantly...

...Only YOU know what to do

xx

 

[hennaly]

i think it would be good to take it slow with no promises but do it for you not because of what you think others will say as its your future not theirs.
Good luck with whatever you decide

 

[CH0C0H0LIC]

I'm sorry if you feel I lecture you, I don't feel as if I ever have as I know just what it feels like, always (and always will) have your best interests at heart, if he makes you happy then go for it and i'll be happy for you.

Will keep trap shut from now onwards!

Sarah xxx

 

[Chrissi87]

aww sarah i'v offended you now, havnt i? i dint mean it in a bad way, ur just like the big sister i neva had, so in a way i'd expect u to lecture me!!
i dnt mind reali!!

Me and Stuart have been on and off for about 4 years now?? (i think )
And we been getting on quite well, we onli broke up last time cus i had a stupid argument with his sister and lost my temper with her and him ( i was suffering with PND, but dint kno at the time) but now we are readi to try again and hope for the best

He and jason get on reali well togetha too and i rekon thats a reali good thing, stu aint afraid to change a dirty nappy or feed him either!!

once again sarah im so sorry for offending you!!