I really really need advice!

[Squeakz]

aw im glad that she spoke to you. i realise i t must have been hard for you to have to be like ok i forgive you etc but its a step in the right direction!!! but still i'd watch her.......

When phil and i first found out we were having the little man, we fought so blooming much and said some horrible things to each other but it was just shock and uncertainty as to what the future holds. we had so many great plans of things we wanted to do before kids etc and then literally over the time it takes to do a pregnancy test our lives had inexplicably changed! but we got through it and each day that passed, and each scan and piece of clothing etc we bought just made us more and more excited!! And now we havae a gorgeous little man!! I gotta say enjoy your pregnancy lol! i didnt and wish i had and realy miss being pregnant now! ah well next time HAHAHAAH!!

Well i hope yo uhave a happy and healthy pregnancy, and that things only get better for you!!1
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[darkmage]

Oh, so now she's the one vexed? Funny. She is not the one pregnant, y'know. I mean, my first pregnancy happened while I was still in university and I just had a deja vu having to read your story because like you my bf that time wasn't ready and dumped me after 5 years being together (just like yours.) And yes, he dumped me after I told him that I was not and will never consider abortion, and that was it. But his parents were all over me, wanting me to give their kid a chance but unfortunately I had a MC due to my stress in school's thesis and paper works.

Your decision of leaving your bf is not an act of being selfish. It is just a mature decision. Give him an ultimatum, if he is not ready then don't force him but don't rid his rights to his kid either. Just let him be, he will come around later on. Keep the baby because it is the most wonderful gift from up above.