I just want to stay in bed...

[nellybelly]

Hi there!

I'm new to this forum and I suppose I'm just looking for a bit of support... I'm almost 9 weeks pregnant and all I want to do is stay in bed (very unlike me)..... I know the moment I lift my head from the pillow I'll feel nauseous, light-headed and exhausted. It's starting to get me down a little bit. Don't get me wrong, I'm over the moon to be pregnant and I wouldn't change it for the world.

I suppose too, I'm feeling a little bit lonely - I haven't really been out for weeks because I feel so rotten, and also I don't want to tell people til I've had my scan, and people would definitely think it's strange that I'm not drinking!! My partner has been amazing, and he's very patient but I'm just sick of not feeling like me. I have little energy for my 2 children too which I feel reeeeeallly guilty about.

Any words of support would be much appreciated.
Thank you
x

 

[scones]

If its any consolation I feel like you, I had to go to bed for an hour yesterday for a snooze as I was sooooo tired.I feel queasy if I do eat, queasy if I dont, Im wiped out and feel im neglecting my son, he's quite happy watching tv at the mo but I feel like a bad mum

You are not alone my dear, ive been told the tiredness will pass, first tri is a toughie xxxxx

 

[HollyHobby]

If it's overly bad maybe get your iron checked.

 

[jellyk]

I'm 9+4 and feel like I could quite easily spend the next few weeks tucked up in bed! I'm not suffering badly with sickness but I feel so tired and irritable and i'm finding it very difficult to get up and go to work.

I don't like to complain as I am soooo pleased to be pregnant but it isn't easy! I also wish my skin would settle - I feel like a teenager again, yuck! Looking forward to things (hopefully!) getting better in tri 2.

Hope you feel better soon x

 

[Mummy Rich]

awwww loves and hugs to you!
I actually dumped my oh today.. not seriously like but thats an example of how not me i'm being!

I totally sympathise with you but like many others have sed on here to me (after a billion related morning sickness posts haha) that it will pass. I am actually starting to have a few more good days than bad altho struggling to eat properly.

Just get as much rest as you can and pray for the period we 'bloom'

xxxx

 

[Jaidy]

I think you need lots of these hun

 

[mummyagain]

i know how u feel,i can barly keep my eyes open n am geting so ratty an i have no energy for my other 3 children which i feel very guilty ofr...just look forward to the fact that it will pass shortly!!

 

[hunnybunny]

I know how you feel,i can't function at all!

 

[luckylady]

Totally with you...I have no energy, and just want to go to bed....poor DH never sees me in any clothes anymore (coz Im always in my pjs)

Your not alone hun

L xx

 

[allycat]

I'm with you on this one! No energy, feeling sick all day and yawning my head off...what's the point of feeling like that all day awake when you can be asleep and not know about it!