midnightrose25
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Hey i've not posted on here for a rather lon time moved house and everything lol had my beautiful babygirl in nov last year weighing a healthy 9lb 11oz by c section. She is my third baby and third c section, we named her Daisey
anyway................. I am a bit confused over what has happened this month. Please help!!
Ok so 3 weeks ago i had to take the morning after pill (levonille i believe its called)... never had any probs with it before. So anyway carried on as i usually do and had my period a week later (21/09/11 the day before it was due) and i finished my period on the 28th. Was like most periods i have, heavy and lost clots etc.... i guess it was a little lighter than normal but not massively. So friday me and my fiance were getting down to business then i started getting excruitiating pain and thought perhaps we had just hurt my cervix a little as i began to lightly bleed. But the pain was like so bad when i sat down i was doubled over in pain it felt like an extreme pressure was building up in my uterus, couldnt explain the pain if i tried!! it hurt lets just say anyway i ignored it, then by sunday it was still hurting be it not as much, it was still uncomfortable and i was still bleeding, maininy brown but a little pink. So i called NHS direct who advised me to go to A & E , where i was asked to do a urine sample which i did.. despite telling them there is no way i was pregnant... or so i thought they called me back in, and said CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE PREGNANT!! WHAT THE~?!! i thought to myself!!! i kept saying... "how??? ermmm... no u cant have a period and be pregnant dont be silly... google says lmao" so they assured me it DOES happen and i needed to see a dr, so i went and waited, not knowing what to do with this news?!! i went to see a dr (i was at hospital waiting 6 hrs :s with this bouncing round my head!!) and the dr said she needed to do an internal with a spectrum and take a swab then an internal with her fingers... JOY to the world I let her do it obv and then she tried to do a tummy scan but it was a sunday she isn't trained to do it and they only had a little machine they move around the wards, so it was unsuccessful at spotting anything. She told me the blood i was losing was old blood though. I had to have bloods taken and then go back to the drs the next day, where i was waiting all day again, i had bloods taken. Followed by one external scan and one internal scan (have u seen the size of those things?!! ) Needless to say they couldnt find anythin but said maybe the baby was still too small. So they couldnt be sure if i was having an ectopic or losing my baby, I went back the next day for bloods and they called me in the afternoon telling me that my hcg level is dropping and they are concerned it is a failed pregnancy. i have to go back tomorrow for one more blood test to confirm. Its breaking my heart like some cruel twist of fate, i just found out i was pregnant.... when i've possibly already lost it, so not only do i have to get my head around the idea i was ever pregnant but i have to deal with losing my baby i feel so confused still, and so upset. I am never using that morning after pill again tho thats for sure!! i am still bleeding its been like 14days with 2 days in between... whats going on??? i thought it was getting lighter/stopping but its getting heavier again....
anyway................. I am a bit confused over what has happened this month. Please help!!
Ok so 3 weeks ago i had to take the morning after pill (levonille i believe its called)... never had any probs with it before. So anyway carried on as i usually do and had my period a week later (21/09/11 the day before it was due) and i finished my period on the 28th. Was like most periods i have, heavy and lost clots etc.... i guess it was a little lighter than normal but not massively. So friday me and my fiance were getting down to business then i started getting excruitiating pain and thought perhaps we had just hurt my cervix a little as i began to lightly bleed. But the pain was like so bad when i sat down i was doubled over in pain it felt like an extreme pressure was building up in my uterus, couldnt explain the pain if i tried!! it hurt lets just say anyway i ignored it, then by sunday it was still hurting be it not as much, it was still uncomfortable and i was still bleeding, maininy brown but a little pink. So i called NHS direct who advised me to go to A & E , where i was asked to do a urine sample which i did.. despite telling them there is no way i was pregnant... or so i thought they called me back in, and said CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE PREGNANT!! WHAT THE~?!! i thought to myself!!! i kept saying... "how??? ermmm... no u cant have a period and be pregnant dont be silly... google says lmao" so they assured me it DOES happen and i needed to see a dr, so i went and waited, not knowing what to do with this news?!! i went to see a dr (i was at hospital waiting 6 hrs :s with this bouncing round my head!!) and the dr said she needed to do an internal with a spectrum and take a swab then an internal with her fingers... JOY to the world I let her do it obv and then she tried to do a tummy scan but it was a sunday she isn't trained to do it and they only had a little machine they move around the wards, so it was unsuccessful at spotting anything. She told me the blood i was losing was old blood though. I had to have bloods taken and then go back to the drs the next day, where i was waiting all day again, i had bloods taken. Followed by one external scan and one internal scan (have u seen the size of those things?!! ) Needless to say they couldnt find anythin but said maybe the baby was still too small. So they couldnt be sure if i was having an ectopic or losing my baby, I went back the next day for bloods and they called me in the afternoon telling me that my hcg level is dropping and they are concerned it is a failed pregnancy. i have to go back tomorrow for one more blood test to confirm. Its breaking my heart like some cruel twist of fate, i just found out i was pregnant.... when i've possibly already lost it, so not only do i have to get my head around the idea i was ever pregnant but i have to deal with losing my baby i feel so confused still, and so upset. I am never using that morning after pill again tho thats for sure!! i am still bleeding its been like 14days with 2 days in between... whats going on??? i thought it was getting lighter/stopping but its getting heavier again....