I hate this

[Esperanza84]

I've just handed in oh's sample and I feel like shit. We had a stupid argument this morning and the whole thing did not turn out as sexy as I wanted it to be.

I had planned to get up before him, put on some sexy underwear and wake him up. Instead he woke up before me (really early), I rejected him, he started playing some game on his iphone and I had officially wrecked the mood. We got the sample, but not the we'd planned.

I feel so stupid...I should have known that oh would be very sensible today. And I feel angry! Why do we have to go through this? All my sisters and all of oh's family are full of kids....blahh...

Im finished now girls, just needed to get it out before going to work.

Thanks for listening!

 

[EmilyB]

Hello, just to say the whole fertility testing experience is a strange one - you want to be supportive, you want to make it feel like part of the ttc process (which is a loving, close one) but actually it is very clinical and I know from personal experience, you both probably feel a bit sad and useless about it all so I am sure you are not the only couple who had every intention of making the experience a nice one and then letting each other down - he will be feeling stupid too! But, either way, now you are well on the way to finding out is all is ok - in which case you can carry on trying, or not ok, in which case you can do something about it - all news from this point in, is good news! I am sure you'll both give each other a nice supportive hug and laugh about it when you see each other later.

 

[Esperanza84]

Thanks Emily! I'm sure you're right! It will be really good to get some news - any news is good news, that's true! I feel much better! Thanks!

 

[EmilyB]

Good luck! Keep us posted x

 

[Princess81]

xx

 

[LouiseB]

 

[Nurse 26]

Aww sorry it didn't turn out as you planned but at least you got the sample, this TTC malarkey is very stressful so don't be too hard on yourself I'm sure you 2 will make up later.

Good luck with the results hun. X x x x

 

[Kerrieanne]

TTCing should be a fun/happy experience but when you have been trying while with no results it can become a pain in the arse!!

Going through the investigation stage can be upsetting at times and waiting for the results can feel like waiting for a bus on a very cold day. Arguments are to be expected so it’s ok to feel fed up!

Just remember you are a team and he must feel a little drowned by it all too.

My hubby doesn’t show his feelings at all and always says it will happen, grrr! However, lately he has been showing signs that he too is hurting and opening up a little. We had an argument the other day, the first in a long time, I hate arguing with him especially as it was over something so stupid. It’s just the stress of it all!

Good luck hun and keep us posted xx

 

[Esperanza84]

Thanks ladies! We made up and will enjoy a good homemade pizza together this evening!

Have a good evening ladies! Lots of luck to all of you with your ttc!