i dont no wether to test or not

[babyliz]

well im 4 days away from offically testing but i dont no weather i should test now or wait

i feel really funny well different this month i have and i mean REALLY sore nipples i cant even touch them .... im craving food (should i be craving food if i was so early in pregancy?) my last period last only 4 days now im always regular and i always bleed for 5 days or more ... i have bad back ache and when lieing on my belly it hurts & im also bloated ....im tired all the time but cant bloody sleep .. i feel sick in the morning & night and im peein alot more ...i just dont no weather to test cause i might be building myself up for not good news...i just want it so much 3 years to be trying is a hell of a long time


i dont get sore nipples and bloating when im due on so thats what is confusing me

thanks liz

 

[mum2ollie]

hi there huni .

i would do a test

i am in the same situation as you im getting loads of symptons and they are really gd 1s for being pregnat but i tested n got a bfn so test huni u mayb surpised

 

[babyblonde]

Just be prepared for the fact that, if you test this early, you are likely to get BFN and feel disappointed. Having said that, some people do get BFP as early as 4 days before!

Up to you babe - good luck with whatever you decide xxx

 

[mum2ollie]

thats a gd point huni well said

 

[babyliz]

i no thats the thing i dont no weather i could handle the dissapointment

i was just thinking to myself then you no when your younger and you say to people im going to have loadssssss of babys i never in my heart thought it would be this hard just to even have bloody one never mind LOADSSSS .... its funny how you think things would work out in "dreamland" and it never does work out the way ya think it will (if you no what i mean) maybe you dont no but i no what i mean lol

 

[babyblonde]

The only other word of caution I would add - having had a chemical pregnancy - is that the earlier you test, the more you risk your BFP not being a sticky and ending up being so upset and disappointed when AF arrives a few days later.

Don't want to be negative, but it's a horrible experience and I'd hate anyone to go through it unecessarily.

Have everything crossed for you xxxxx

 

[babyblonde]

I apologise - I was out of order posting that, I have no right to reflect my low mood onto everyone else.

If you want to test honey then do and don't let my random rantings put you off.

Meant it about really hoping you get your BFP though

 

[roseanimal]

I think it's too early at the moment. do one in a few days really hope it's BFP!!

 

[babyliz]

I apologise - I was out of order posting that, I have no right to reflect my low mood onto everyone else.

If you want to test honey then do and don't let my random rantings put you off.

Meant it about really hoping you get your BFP though

no hun your just looking out for people dont feel bad i didnt take it the wrong way

 

[babyblonde]

Phew - don't want to get a reputation as crazy rant lady!

 

[babyliz]

Phew - don't want to get a reputation as crazy rant lady!

no your ok hun its nice you look out for ppl maybe i am just getting my hopes up i was gonna buy a test yesturday just as i was about to pick one up my mother in law come up behind me so i pretended i was looking at johhnnys lol maybe its fait(if thats how ya spell it )

 

[babyblonde]

Being caught in that aisle is a lose lose situation isnt it!!!!

 

[roseanimal]

oh how embarassing!!

 

[babyliz]

Being caught in that aisle is a lose lose situation isnt it!!!!

well yeah i shit myself lol cause she has only just found out her daughter is preggy , i think she would be pleased though cause my other half hasnt had any kids and hes 30 next year and shes been wanting us to have one for ages as hes a mummys boy lol i just hope and pray ill show my bare arse in the local pub if i am lmao (hope no one knows me on here lmao )

 

[babyliz]

oh how embarassing!!

i no lol <<<<<<<makes a mental note to ring the mother in law to check where she is in 4 days time so i dont bump into her again hoping my period dont come that is

 

[Storm.]

I agree with the others wait a bit longer, if you can I know sometimes the wait can get the beter of you though! be strong give it a few more days and see how things go

good luck hope you get what you wish for

 

[babyliz]

well just to update no signs of the period YET

 

[babyblonde]

for you hun!

 

[A&J]

Good Luck hun

 

[Donna's here]

You've done so well not testing, but now youve only got 1 day left, I'd just have to go and test! Good luck hun