i broke =[

[Robyn_]

havent smoked for like the whole of my pregnany.
and me and bf have been arguing i just had 2
does it make me a bad person, will it affect the baby?

 

[Urchin]

It doesn't make you a bad person hun
I'm sure the baby will be fine, maybe get yourself some gum or the patches? See what your GP says, you've done really well so far, keep it up.

 

[sophie-jordan]

corse u aint a bad person hun, u have wuit 4 so long, everyone has a bad day
gd luck
x sophie x

 

[neeko_1]

no it doesn't make you a bad person a tall.... it's a very hard thing and well done for coming this far..

i smoked really bad before i got prenant. but you have to really try and stop smoking as you already know.. just try and seek advice and do you best


i feel so much better for not smoking and i don't think bout fags anymore and save on the money, buy your baby something or yourself


good luck hun

 

[Robyn_]

i know this isnt the answer, but do you think one a day will hurt?

at the moment im going through such a shit time with Dave i feel like its the only thing that makes me feel better even though i feel guilty.

 

[neeko_1]

i know this isnt the answer, but do you think one a day will hurt?

at the moment im going through such a sh*t time with Dave i feel like its the only thing that makes me feel better even though i feel guilty.

this not the answer you want to hear... but i really would not advise you too... just think of your little baby breathing in that smoke and coughing... it's not a nice thought but you should stop all together, don't make your child suffer for your own problems... one a day adds up and it's never really one a day...

sorry i don't mean to sound so rude, but hun please stop

 

[Misslarue]

Hun, you know its not good, that's why you gave up in the first place No one on here can say for sure weather one a day will harm your baby or not...........but it certainly won't do him/her any good.
Don't give up, you've done so well. Maybe what you really need is a little time out from your OH?? Either way. DONT DO IT!!

(And I really do know how you feel as I used to smoke like a tropper unitl I got pregnant!)

 

[happy-chick]

You've done so well hun, dont give in now!
Get some gum, they should help Good luck x

 

[Robyn_]

i have given up, thouht bout it last night,
it was just cos i had shit happening and stuff.
i feel bad
but its over now

 

[Misslarue]

Don't feel bad. You should be proud of yourself

 

[Princess_Puddles]

You're not a bad person hun
I used to smoke around 20 a day for 3-4 yrs before I found out I was pregnant and then I gave up just like that, instead of thinking about myself for a change I thought about the lil person growing inside me. Being pregnant is a stressful time hun and can be hard on relationships what with all the hormones but try and think of you child first, you need willpower!! There were many times I wanted to go and buy a packet of cigarettes but my willpower stopped me from doing it, i occupied myself with other things, one being this forum lol

 

[neeko_1]

don't beat yourself up about it... you've stop now so it's fine.. the earlier you stop the better for both of you


you can do it