how often?

[Sarah&Braydon]

do u leave ur children?
i leave B to go to work 3 days a week and every other sat afternoon for footy!
just asking coz me and mum have just had a talk and she dont think i leave him enough like i never go out at nite etc in the last 2 yrs i have only been out at nite bout 3 times
i was just wondering wot others do?

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

When my ex was havin keeley twice a week then i wasn't havin her for two days durin the week but always had her back at night...

But since that has ended in the last 4 months i have only left her once and that was to watch the simpsons movie and i hated leaving her

But i have a my income support interview in two weeks and i'm gonna get a part time job and i'm gonna hate being away from her

 

[mary70]

i leave Hannah for 2 hours on a wednesday night to go swimming

 

[Urchin]

I work for 5 hours on a Thursday, and he goes to my moms.
I have the occasional night out, maybe once a month, maybe less, where I leave him at home with OH.

 

[Emmylou]

I've left Libby for one daytime whilst I went to work (10am til 5pm) with my mom & sis, and one evening when me & DH went out on a date

I was fine as I was soooo busy at work it kept my mind occupied, and on the evening one, I had settled her to bed before I went out

DH takes her out for a couple of hours if I have work to do, and again I barely notice she's gone as I am sooo busy trying to get my work done so I can spend time with her when she's back

MIL wants her overnight in Sept....but NO WAY!!! I won't do it

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

my aunt wants B over nite but there is no chance haha

 

[violet-glow]

my son goes to my parents every weekend and comes back sunday.

Ive only left elora over night once with my parents

I dont get out much

 

[Princess_Puddles]

Me and OH work full time so he's left with my Mum during the day but as my new job is 5 mins away from her house I always pop in and see him at lunch time. I don't know if this makes me sound like a bad Mum/person but i'm not fussed about leaving Harry, don't get me wrong I do miss him but I always leave him with my parents or OH's parents and I know he's in safe hands because they're the only ones I trust! He's going away for the week again next week and I'm really going to miss him I don't know how i'm going to survive without him and his cheeky grins, big hugs and giggles

Sorry about rambling on

 

[Kimbo]

awwww @ u lot

i cant wait for mine

 

[Dee1985]

Dior and Harley go to nursery 8am - 6pm monday and weds
and every thursday Dior will go to OH mums 8-5

and i get to go out when ever i want at night, but kids are asleep so it dont affect them

 

[trixipaws]

i cant leave her at all til shes on solids as she wont take a bottle! when i can tho i shall take full advantage of free babysitters (a.k.a. grandparents lol)

 

[Emmylou]

Me and OH work full time so he's left with my Mum during the day but as my new job is 5 mins away from her house I always pop in and see him at lunch time. I don't know if this makes me sound like a bad Mum/person but i'm not fussed about leaving Harry, don't get me wrong I do miss him but I always leave him with my parents or OH's parents and I know he's in safe hands because they're the only ones I trust! He's going away for the week again next week and I'm really going to miss him I don't know how i'm going to survive without him and his cheeky grins, big hugs and giggles

Sorry about rambling on

I wish I found it that easy hun, I admire you for it actually, I hope maybe I'll feel different in time to come.....I'm not even going out for my birthday as no one I trust locally and I don't want her to go to either parents overnight

Was it hard when he was first away overnight? I'm dreading the first time the most (but think would feel better with my mom than MIL )

 

[Becksss]

I only went ou for 1st time last week
twice
i did feel strange until i got wasted and then i think every1 in swindon town knew that i had got a daughter lmfao

 

[Kimbo]

I only went ou for 1st time last week
twice
i did feel strange until i got wasted and then i think every1 in swindon town knew that i had got a daughter lmfao

awwwww bless ya!

 

[kellie80]

I never leave the kids. Not that I don't want to but no one will have them.

 

[frangelle]

I go out about once every 3/4 months with the girls, and even less with the OH

Although my Gran had him all night the other night (first time in a year that I haven't had him all night!!) which was great!!!

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I have only left Kiara over night 3 times and once was wheni was in hospital with Kadyn. I am such a suck and hate leaving her and Kadyn dont plan on leaving him anytime soon either
My friends and family always say to leave them with them so i could go out but i would rather stay home with them.
Katrina

 

[Misslarue]

do u leave ur children?
i leave B to go to work 3 days a week and every other sat afternoon for footy!
just asking coz me and mum have just had a talk and she dont think i leave him enough like i never go out at nite etc in the last 2 yrs i have only been out at nite bout 3 times
i was just wondering wot others do?

I hardly ever leave Dan, just a few times for a few hours with my mum and once with my brother and his OH overnight. I have left him more with his dad when I've been down my local a few times, but I don't really count that as leaving him as he's at home with his dad.
Saying that though Sarah, I'm nearly 30, I've been out ALOT in my life! You are a young woman on your own and should be going out once in a while and letting your hair down. It will do you good
But don't be forced into anything, it's up to you hun. You know what's best for you and your son

 

[Vicki83]

Sophie goes to her grans every Tuesday (apart from today as she's ill) but other than that she's with me!

 

[Minime]

Short answer, never.

OH had him once whilst I dropped my nan off which takes an hour and half, Eefie screamed the place down (apparantly) the entire time I was gone so he's with me 24/7. In the evenings OH will sit with him but I'm usually making tea then feeding & changing Eefie anyway so I'm around him constantly. I'm not comfortable with anyone else having him just yet and I'm a homebody so dont feel the need to go out.

If I was younger and still into clubs then I'd probably go out in the evenings more but am happy as I am with my slippers