How often Should I b draggin hubby 2 bed, or floor etc..!!

[Storm.]

As title says really! I know noone knows the exact answers so just advice is great esp from you brainboxes! lol!

Anyway hubby & I were discussing TTC & what it involves,

Hes worried as he is a baker & has heard standing by the ovens can lower his spermy count, yet the mere mention of icecubes being involed had him running for the hills screamin like a girl hiding his balls!!

Anyway AF finished last monday after 6 days, & my cycle is every 6 weeks, but Im not bothered about that, as we have (since I said bye bye implamon,(it killed my sex drive)) a pretty healthy sex life.....and are at it like rabbits (well I do have 18 months catching up to do!!!)

What I want to know is it best to BD every day or every couple days to allow those lil devils to reproduce?

Also I still run to the loo after every session & ..yea ... well anyway!! Will this effect it? I last night tried sitting/laying still but got the pee ripped otta me so gave up!

hmmmm what you lot reckon, did any of you who have BFPs do it every day or leave it every few days?

Cheers

baby-storm

xx

 

[EllieBelle]

If you know exactly when you are ovulating I would BD every other day - starting about 5 days before "O" day!

Saying that I think timing is key, and much more important than how often you BD - I only BD once on the actual day I ovulated (it all happened too early) and still got my BFP!

I always used to run for a pee straight after too You need to ensure you lie there for at least 20 mins - after that get up as normal! I tell you it will be a VERY long 20 mins.......I never put my legs in the air, but did bend my legs and tried to use my pelvic muscles to keep the little devils in for as long as possible during the 20 mins

Lots of luck hun

 

[Baileys-Angel]

Hi
I have heard all kinds of stories. My mate was told by doc to BD evry day from Day 9 after AF for two weeks. She has just had a baby boy. My other mate BD every other day and got BFP and another waited till BBT rose then BD like mad !!. I also need to wee afterwards but been told to lie for about half an hour with little pillow under me bum to aid the little fella's journey up. I am still waiting for BFP so none of the above working for me yet ha ha ha

 

[ejjie]

Hi Babystorm

I think it's best to BD as much as you want to start off with (if this is every day then you should go for it!) You are supposed to cut back to every other day if you are not having any joy conceiving or if your hubby has a low sperm count as it gives them more chance to replenish...

For you I would say to go for it whenever it suits you to start and only worry about 'rules' if you don't get a BFP quickly

As for lying there afterwards, it is horrible but id supposed to give you a better chance. Even 5 mins is better than nothing x

 

[LittleLambe]

I BD'd every day, during my fertile window for 3 months.. and nothing. I BD'd every other day on cycle 4 and got my BFP.

 

[suzie1011]

i must say, i love the title of this thread! OH and i BD every other day, as everyday was working, and its exhausting!lol we have fingers crossed for you

 

[Storm.]

i must say, i love the title of this thread! OH and i BD every other day, as everyday was working, and its exhausting!lol we have fingers crossed for you

yea well, when needs must, who cares were it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But thanks for the replies, I really hope we dont have to wait long, and we have added pressure from his sister now,

It was her birthday saturday and her OH proposed (sp) she happily informed my mil that she would like us to produce a page boy or flower girl in time for their 2012 wedding!!!!!!!!
Think we Better get a move on then!!!

 

[rhian85]

hey hun..just to let u know taking the relaxed approach is the best we did that in september and guess what only BD 2 days before OV and urmm take a look at the sig..................good luck

 

[Storm.]

hey hun..just to let u know taking the relaxed approach is the best we did that in september and guess what only BD 2 days before OV and urmm take a look at the sig..................good luck

congrats and thanks, I am tryin to see it as if it happens it happens if not then no worries! but think hubby is more determined esp now his sister has requested that! lmao

 

[rhian85]

hey hun..just to let u know taking the relaxed approach is the best we did that in september and guess what only BD 2 days before OV and urmm take a look at the sig..................good luck

congrats and thanks, I am tryin to see it as if it happens it happens if not then no worries! but think hubby is more determined esp now his sister has requested that! lmao

best of luck hun xxxxxxx

 

[Anna23]

we bd'ed every day but like people say every otehr day is fine