How common is it for young ppl (say 20 yrs old) to have a...

[Ebony_Mommy]

.. miscarriage?

I'm very paranoid as I believe in karma. i was gonna have an abortion but changed my mind. so im now paranoid that im gonna lose it.

I get headaches everyday thinking about it.

This is my first pregnancy.

 

[Urchin]

Awww hun don't worry, I'll tell you my story.

When I was living in Thailand 5 years ago I found out I was pregnant, I'd been drinking and scuba diving and generally partying from morning till night

The first thing I wanted to do was get a termination, I didn't feel ready at all, I was living a life on paradise and I was going to lose it all.

I got on a boat and went straight to a clinic, got the price, went to the cashpoint and got the money. I walked back to the clinic and sat on the pavement outside and just cried and cried.
I didn't go through with it, it was the best decision I ever made, here's my little man:

Don't feel guilty, I'm sure hundreds of women come close like we did. I don't feel guilty, my head was a mess with the shock of it, when I calmed down I made the right choice.

Hope that makes you feel a little better.

xxxx

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

oh my god!

he's the cutest thing ive ever seen

my baby sis is 4 soon. wen hes ready to get married.. lemme know


but yeah, i booked the appointment the day the doctor confirmed it.... got home crying... then decided to keep it.. then i was soooooo happy...

all that emotion in one day! lol

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

and becaz im sooo excited, ive told everyone i know

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

i dont think not wanting a baby at first means miscarrage just a horrible thing that happens

 

[lauramumof2]

Surely knowing the little i know about karma, because you done a good thing and decided to keep the baby then good things will happen.
You poor wee soul.
Sit back and enjoy your pregnancy.

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Yes i agree realax and enjoy your pregnancy dont stress or you will stress your babes out as well.
Katrina

 

[Vicky]

Just ist back and enjoy your pregancy hunny, their is no point stressing about what you might of done

 

[skatty]

Your karma will be fantastic, you are giving a life

Urchin, Mason is adorable!!

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

i hope so

 

[claireabell]

Hi there,

I think you should stop worrying, you've done a good thing as far as karma is concerned and you are keeping your baby. I already have a 9 year old daughter who is amazing but when i fell pregnant with haylea i thought i wasn't ready but she's awesome and so glad she's here. My partner and I said we didn't want anymore as my partner has another daughter who's 15. Unfortunately last year I had a termination and regretted it ever since. I'm now 28 weeks pregnant and was so paranoid to start with that I would miscarry as a result of having the termination last year, but you can't worry about what was or what could have been...you just have to enjoy what you have now and look forward to the life you will share with your baby.
I hope this has helped you feel better about things.
Take care and keep us posted on how your pregnancy goes.
XXXXX