I was in for 3 days after my first, but by my own choice. I could have gone home the next day if I was happy to. I had Tyler on Sunday around midday and came home on Wednesday morning. As he was my first I wanted to stay in to get help with breastfeeding and general advice, and as it is quite a small maternity unit the care was excellent and very much one-on-one so they had a lot of time for me. It also meant I wasn't worrying about everything that needed doing around the house, which I would've done if I'd been home. However, with this one I think I will stay just the one night, as I'm a bit more clued up this time and it will kill me to be away from my son for too long!