babyforbes
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Hi everyone,
Having never posted here before i need to introduce myself. Im Rachel 22 and have just suffered my first miscarriage. I was 21 weeks pregnant when i lost my little boy, Mylo.
I had spotting throughout my pregnancy, not continuos but roughly every 3 to 4 weeks, usually brown discharge or just once when i wiped - nothing major, nothing that was ever picked up on scans.
Everything was going great. We were so excited, had fought over names, bought clothes, got the buggy and even paid for private scans for an extra peak at our baby.
I knew something was wrong on the Wednesday. For a few days i had wet knickers, enough to be uncomfortable. I had extremely bad back and hip pains, i now am pretty sure this was labour pains. I went to my GP who completely dismissed me and said i will ache im pregnant. Two days later i woke up and was experiencing contractions about every 4 mins, although i didnt realise this is what they were. i went to the loo and saw a tiny clot when i wiped and alarm bells started ringing. I went straight to my labour ward and was examined. A senior doc was called and i was told (very coldly) i was in labour, already 5 cm dilated and my membranes were bulging. I was devastated.
18 hours later, on Nov 29th Mylo was born. Being only 21 weeks, he had already fallen asleep in my tummy. He looked perfect, he was so like his daddy.
A week later we laid him to rest. I am waiting for some answers from my consultant appt on 9th jan. I dont know what happened or why.
Im so desperate for some answers - will i be able to have another baby? Is there something wrong with me? Why did it happen?
Im sorry to ramble, i know everyone is here for the same reason, and i know my story isnt any more devastating than any of your own. I was hoping for someone to speak to. Maybe someone in the same situation, or someone who has experienced a late miscarriage, luckily i dont think there will be too many in this situation.
I hope you all had a good christmas and that 2009 brings us all happiness.
Rachel xx
Having never posted here before i need to introduce myself. Im Rachel 22 and have just suffered my first miscarriage. I was 21 weeks pregnant when i lost my little boy, Mylo.
I had spotting throughout my pregnancy, not continuos but roughly every 3 to 4 weeks, usually brown discharge or just once when i wiped - nothing major, nothing that was ever picked up on scans.
Everything was going great. We were so excited, had fought over names, bought clothes, got the buggy and even paid for private scans for an extra peak at our baby.
I knew something was wrong on the Wednesday. For a few days i had wet knickers, enough to be uncomfortable. I had extremely bad back and hip pains, i now am pretty sure this was labour pains. I went to my GP who completely dismissed me and said i will ache im pregnant. Two days later i woke up and was experiencing contractions about every 4 mins, although i didnt realise this is what they were. i went to the loo and saw a tiny clot when i wiped and alarm bells started ringing. I went straight to my labour ward and was examined. A senior doc was called and i was told (very coldly) i was in labour, already 5 cm dilated and my membranes were bulging. I was devastated.
18 hours later, on Nov 29th Mylo was born. Being only 21 weeks, he had already fallen asleep in my tummy. He looked perfect, he was so like his daddy.
A week later we laid him to rest. I am waiting for some answers from my consultant appt on 9th jan. I dont know what happened or why.
Im so desperate for some answers - will i be able to have another baby? Is there something wrong with me? Why did it happen?
Im sorry to ramble, i know everyone is here for the same reason, and i know my story isnt any more devastating than any of your own. I was hoping for someone to speak to. Maybe someone in the same situation, or someone who has experienced a late miscarriage, luckily i dont think there will be too many in this situation.
I hope you all had a good christmas and that 2009 brings us all happiness.
Rachel xx