I know how you feel hun, I was completely clueless about this stuff when the time came to put my son into nursery. If you get in touch with your local council, they should give you the number for child and family services in your area, including a list of childcare providers. From there you can begin to ask around them and you will soon suss out which ones would work best for you and indeed there may well be waiting lists for them. At the moment, all 3 year olds are entitled to 12.5 hours a week of grant funded care, from the term following their 3rd birthday, so according to when your child was born will indicate exactly how old they are when starting nursery. Terms begin in January, April or September...for example my sons birthday is in May so the next available term is September. He started his funded place last month
and was 3yrs 4 mnths old but had already been going to the nursery for over a year at a great expense to me
Its worth checking within your local area for information tho, as even though the government provides 12.5 hours funding, your local government may well have an extra policy. Ours actually do 15.5 hours funded
Depending on the childcare provider, you should be able to take these hours at a time that suits you too, not necessarily in a set pattern iykwim. For example you would imagine them to provide 5 x 3hr sessions a week, all mornings or all afternoons, but this is not necessarily the case. As I said it depends on the provider, but some private nurseries will be totally flexible with the hours to suit you. FWIW my son does 3 x 6hr sessions, monday to wednesday, 15.5 hours are free and I pay the difference up to the 18 hours. We have always done this as it fit around the hours I worked, so have never changed it, even while Im now on maternity leave and could look after him myself. He loves going to nursery so Im not going to disturb him.
Anyway, as your son was born in July, he should get a funded place from September 2009. I would def start looking into it now and go and have a tour and/or taster sessions at the ones in your area so you can choose the one you prefer. That way you should have plenty of time to register your interest and secure a place for him at your first choice nursery. Some will have waiting lists, others wont, but if you leave it till a couple of months before you need the place, you might have to settle on somewhere that you dont want him to go to if that makes sense? Hope that helps a bit!! FWIW I have already booked my daughters place at the same nursery as my son, for when I start back at work in May. I want them to be together so didnt want to just presume that they will fit her in, even though my son already goes there.
Good luck x