Help. Feel like i'm losing our marriage

[beanster]

don't really know what's happened. Everything just feels wrong and like we r pretending to be happy together. We used to laugh all the time, always cuddle etc and now it's like 2 people who happen to share a space. I work part time as a special needs teacher and have lots of work to do out of school hours, parents look after lo when i'm at work which is fab but feel the pressure to have house tidy and clean for them. Feel like i can't keep on top of anything at the moment, school work, house work, washing etc and so our relationship is way down on list and suffering. Don't know what to do and just feel so sad all the time.

 

[Babylicious81]

Firstly you are amazing doing the job you do - I have two children one with ADHD and mild Aspergers and one with suspected severe ADHD. Also a step son who is fully autistic.

Have you sat down and talking with your other half? sometimes life gets in the way and relationships do suffer. You still love each other right? You just need to make some time for each other try and do the things you used to enjoy. Doesnt have to be going out on the town, for meals etc. You can have a nice meal at home when your LO is in bed. Even watching a dvd together.

Relationships do take a lot of work, but sometimes its worth fighting for xx