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Hi there,
My name is Kat aka Frankie, I am (soon to be in just under two weeks) 22, and me and the OH are planning to ttc in October this year!
My oh and I are the same age, surprisingly went to school together but never crossed paths until we were 18 when we got together in August
and have been dating just over 3 years.
We bought our very first house last July, and since then we have been putting final touches to it, I've always known I've wanted kids, been fascinated by people's birthing stories etc (but at the same time quite terrified haha) My mum had me quite late in life aged 39 so I've always thought when I do have children I want to be relatively young and full of energy when I do have them.
At the moment i feel ready to have a child, mentally, and financially, I know we can provide a brilliant home and life for a baby so had a natter the other night and are now in the planning stages and saving up stages for the baby we are really excited I'm just absolutely petrified of giving birth haha I've watched one born religiously and although thousands of people have children every second, I can't help but be scared haha I am rather a whimp!
Before we decide to have baby, I would like to clear some of my student finances (I finished last march and graduated in English) I'm currently working in a job I don't particularly enjoy but I am hoping to get a job as a Teaching assistant asap, this isn't my career goal, but after being rejected this year for my pgce, we thought having a child within this time frame would fit nice into our lives, as my in laws say, there is never a 'good' time to have a child, haha
I would also like to have some savings and finish off bits of the house before we try. I visit the doctors on mon about coming off my pill, (god help me! My periods were horrific and painful before I went on the pill) as i'd like to get my body back to some normality etc
I'm really really excited, it just seems very surreal haha
Frankie
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My name is Kat aka Frankie, I am (soon to be in just under two weeks) 22, and me and the OH are planning to ttc in October this year!
My oh and I are the same age, surprisingly went to school together but never crossed paths until we were 18 when we got together in August
and have been dating just over 3 years.We bought our very first house last July, and since then we have been putting final touches to it, I've always known I've wanted kids, been fascinated by people's birthing stories etc (but at the same time quite terrified haha) My mum had me quite late in life aged 39 so I've always thought when I do have children I want to be relatively young and full of energy when I do have them.
At the moment i feel ready to have a child, mentally, and financially, I know we can provide a brilliant home and life for a baby so had a natter the other night and are now in the planning stages and saving up stages for the baby
we are really excited I'm just absolutely petrified of giving birth haha I've watched one born religiously and although thousands of people have children every second, I can't help but be scared haha I am rather a whimp! Before we decide to have baby, I would like to clear some of my student finances (I finished last march and graduated in English) I'm currently working in a job I don't particularly enjoy but I am hoping to get a job as a Teaching assistant asap, this isn't my career goal, but after being rejected this year for my pgce, we thought having a child within this time frame would fit nice into our lives, as my in laws say, there is never a 'good' time to have a child, haha
I would also like to have some savings and finish off bits of the house before we try. I visit the doctors on mon about coming off my pill, (god help me! My periods were horrific and painful before I went on the pill) as i'd like to get my body back to some normality etc
I'm really really excited, it just seems very surreal haha
Frankie
X
