Having "the talk" with DH...

[Mum2Many]

So we've mostly been NTNP the last few months. Of course, my cycles are so messed up that there's no way I could actually get pregnant (or stay that way) at the moment so I guess it's all academic.

I'm now thinking that we probably need to properly sit down and have a talk about what we plan to do but I'm absolutely bricking it. DH hates change generally, so I know he's going to automatically say "no more, we're done".

Feeling very nervous. We have spoken about it briefly several times since baby was born but it always ends with a "not sure, let's talk about it later". LOL I feel like I need more of an answer than that as I know if we do TTC properly I'm going to have to try and fix my cycles through supplements etc. and that's not a quick fix at all so I'll need to know in advance really.

We'll see what he says I guess. Wish me luck!

 

[Donna88]

Good luck, hope it goes well.

I told my fiancé today that I want to have two more babies while I'm doing my open uni as if I train to be a teacher it would make sense to have babies before I did my training (at this point in my life anyway-I'm 27 this year and doing my first out of 5 years of uni before I then move onto teacher training) he laughed and said it made sense... but not convinced he knew I was serious as before he has always said just one more.

 

[babyslog]

Good luck huni xxx

 

[kellylou]

Good luck, if it helps my husband was the same, dh went into the birth of our ds without a clue of anything, I was chilled out as I had read anything and everything that may happen during birth he didn't and panicked. He has always said no, one is enough and made me state why I want another. My reason was the same as when I wanted our son, I just do.
Now the roles have switched and he is taking control a bit more, you do need to have the talk, I just kept bringing it up and made him think about it and then I got my answer..