Harry Daniel 05/11/12 at 32 weeks

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Thought I would post my birth story

Saturday 6am- woke up with period pains. Thought possibly braxton hicks so rang hospital and got told to have Bath and give it an hour. Still had pains an hour later so rang them back. They told me to come in. Got there and was monitored. Baby happy had a urine sample and internal. Urine highlighted a urine infection so was prescribed antibiotics. Internal showed cervix not open so was sent home.
Started antibiotics n getting cramps still but bareable. At 9pm they were worse so rang hospital and thy basically told me a water infection was going to hurt so to ride it out. Managed to struggle on till 3am Sunday morning where pains were sobad I rang again and got told to go in. Had bother internal to hitch dr said I'm really sorry but you're 3-4 cm dilated and in early labour. I just broke own then as I was only 32 weeks pregnant and panic just took over. They gave me a steroid injection for babies lungs and some tablets to stop the labour. This worked or most of Sunday and a second steroid injection was given at 6pm. Not long after this the contractions started again. By midnight they were unbearable. Got on gas and air and the pain was awful. This continued fir a few hours but the pains were so bad i was screaming a the highest point on contraction. No other pain relief was offered. At 2:30am I started pushing and it all got pouch I said I couldn't do it anymore. Got proper bollocking off the midwives and told I had to. I screamed through them, had to get cut and then at 2:45am Harry arrived. He was whisked straight away to neonatal. I'm currently in a state of shock and the past few days ave been so emotional. It breaks my heart to leave him at hospital and to only get 2 cuddles a day. I hate that I have to ask permission to hold my own son and sometimes get told no. Just looking forward to him coming home now xxxx
 
O my god hun! that's so traumatic!! can't believe you couldn't have any pain relief. well done you for getting you and bubs through it xxxx
 
:( sorry you had such a traumatic time! You've done so well, congratulations on little Harry though, hopefully not too long until he's home xx
 
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Oh bless you hun...must have been a really scary time for you and OH. And sorry to hear the midwives were rather strict with you....so glad to hear Harry is doing well though and you are okay....massive hugs to you... :hugs: look forward to updates....hopefully he can come home soon xxxxxx
 
Omg babes so sorry you got treated that way I would seriously think of putting a complaint in. On the other hand congrats on your little boy - it is scary now but before you know it he will be healthy and ready to come home xxxxx
 
Sorry you've had such an awful time. I can't believe your treatment! Congratulations on your little man I hope he's home with you very soon xx
 
Congratulations on birth of baby Harry. Sorry you are going through a rough time at the moment. x
 
Harry obviously wanted to meet mummy a bit earlier than planned, I think you ave a little monkey there! :good:

Congratulations.
 
Sorry to hear you were treated so badly and had such a rubbish time! Congratulations on becoming a mummy though, and I'm sure it won't be long till you get him home and can have all the cuddles in the world :) xxx
 
Awwr lovely, I cannot believe they wouldn't give you pain relief. Your MW's sound horrid.. Stay strong Harry will be home soon xx
 
Huge congratulations on the birth of baby Harry, can't believe that you were treated so badly though, I would definitely be complaining because it sounds like they made a traumatic time even more so. I hope Harry is doing well and home with you soon.
 
Congrats on the birth of your little one. Sorry it was a traumatic journey for you. Xxx
 
Yeh complain - did you ask for pain relief and where refused? I know that if you dont ask they dont really ask you because some women like to just have gas and air, not that im sticking up for them! they should have seen you couldn't cope and mentioned something xx
 
Oh wow! How scary. I hope you and your little man are doing well and he gets home soon xxx
 
Oh you poor thing :( I hope your lo is home with you soon, you managed so well!! Xxx
 
Aw u poor thing how traumatic!! But massive congratulations!! :D bet he's beautiful
 

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