gutted husband definately cant make scan tomorrow

[mumofmany]

I am so disappointed that my husband cant come to scan tomorrow, he is working wih his brother and his brothers girlfriend is being induced today so obviously it is more important that he is with her, then the other lad that works with them is off sick and someone has to be at the job so unfortunately its down to my hubby to be there. I told my sister the other day that he may not be able to make it so she pulled a sicky and got sent home half day today so she could be off tomorrow to come with me if i want her to, which i do, so it will be lovlely to be me and my sister but still disappointed as he couldn;t get the day off for the other 2 scans either so this is the first baby that he will never have been to a scan at all. I think because origianlly i wasn;t going to have the baby i got to feel alot better about having another baby but as much as he says he is now made up and happy with our decision a little bit of me is still worrying that with him not coming to any of the scans that he wont be as at peace with our decision. probably daft thinking I know, but with all the others he would have moved heaven and earth to get to the scans. unsure wether to find out or not still he said if i dont want to find out then dont but i know he wanted to know but he said to me he's not bothered either way now. ok maon over

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Ah sorry to hear he cant make it....but glad you have someone going with you tho....xxx

 

[Rósa]

Sorry he can't be with you hope the scan goes well

 

[Lynzlogan87]

My OH couldn't get time off work for our 12wk scan (my Dad came with me)...his boss is a A-Hole! No one was off sick he just said he wasn't allowed the time off.

For our 22wk scan the Boss tried the same again and OH told him B*llocks i'll go in my lunch break which he did!
Boss allowed this but as he was half hour late back from lunch he had to work that half hour the next day!

They are already moaning about him booking off the 2wks paternity leave too! And uming and arrhin about if i am over due or baby is early!

Glad you have someone to go with you though!

 

[amandapanda]

Awww sorry to hear that - mine missed the 12 week scan and I do feel he's missed out and hasn't connected with the pregnancy and baby as well as he could have. He's coming to the 20 week scan on Monday though, snow permitting! It really is a shame he is missing it but I'm glad you have your sister with you, that will be nice