I don't think I could easily have an abortion, but I can see how say if a woman was in a relationship with a violent or rubbish partner it would be hard to keep a baby.
When I got preg it wasn't planned (we didn't think we could have children) and at the time I wasn't getting on with OH, because he kept saying he would marry me, then backing out, for years. A couple of years ago I even set a date for us at the church at one point, but had to cancel everything due to him backing out.
So I didn't have the best of opinions of him when I fell preg, and it was quite hard to come to terms with for a week or so. But then our relationship started being brill again.
Unfortunately I miscarried. But now we're mad for babies.
Anyway my point is I can see how it would be hard if a lady had decided to leave a relationship, only to find out before she did so, that she was preg.
I know lots of you are single mums though
I also had concerns about whether I would cope with a baby, as I've had severe depression in the past.
Anyway so I can see that sometimes it's difficult to go ahead with a pregnancy.
But Becsss friend is still a spanner for doing it loads of times.
Lucky she didn't get pregnant from those, because she surely would have gotten an abortion each time!
poor baby though, did she keep it or have it adopted or whatnot
