Got my scan tomorrow, and i can't settle*UPDATE*

[gems2209]

At 9.00am but im sooooo nerves about it, just keep thinking im going to get there and baby will be no more i couldn't sleep very well last night and i know i will get even less tonight Im telling myself to stop being so silly but i cant get it out of my head Now today i don't even feel pregnant anymore (think its me being paranoid)
I have had in total 5 m/c but also have my 2 healthy little ones didn't feel like this on my other 2 on 12 week scan though.
My DP doesn't really understand he won't have any of it just keeps saying all was good when we had one at 8 weeks (was in loads of pain) so everything will be fine tomorrow, your just being silly. But i keep telling him allot can happen in 5 weeks.

Sorry post is soooo long but just needed to get it all out. Im SOOOOOOO scared
I really could do with a nice and have him tell me nice that all will be ok, and that he is here for me, but he's not even doing that. I tell you men on times GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

 

[gems2209]

now i got my mum telling me not to be so daft too

 

[prunella1]

They're both right - I'm sure you'll be fine. Men have a way of being so practical, don't they - perhaps he doesn't want to discuss his worries with you because he wants to be strong and support you and not worry you more by showing he might be a bit apprehensive too?

 

[gems2209]

Thank you prunella that's what i need, someone to take notice of what i have got to say the reassure me kindly. thank you for that
as for everyone around me they just look and talk to me like im a child having a tantrum, and tell me there's no need of it.

I know that the are women who have had worst luck that me and to them i send my love and Although for me i see 5 m/c as allot im only 24. I have had 2 since my son was born, but they still don't seem to get it.
OMG sorry i rambled on again

 

[Jaded Diamond]

I was like this before my scan the other day hun. So much so that dispite not having morning sickness properly up until monday I'd got myself so worked up that i spent most of monday night and tuesday morning in the bathroom crying and being sick. And DH was also not talking about it. Eventually when he saw how distraught I was at the fact that something could be wrong we sat and talked it through before we went for the scan.
I was still terrified, but I knew he felt the same. If that makes sense? I didn't feel so alone in my fear.
's x a million. I'm sure everything will be ok. xxxx

 

[Tenshineko]

Try not to worry its easier said than done. Hope everythings goes ok at the scan

 

[gems2209]

thank you all sooooo much, im glad im not the only one who feels like this, I know where you are coming from Jaded this is what i want from DP but he will not open up at all, so i have no idea how he is feeling. I am feeling very alone at the mo

And to top it all off now i cant stop going to the loo now, coz i have worked myself up so much and have very bad little bum Sorry TMI

 

[Jaded Diamond]

Thats what I got like hun.
I ended up running a bath with some radox in and just laid there for hours with a book, anything to take my mind off of it.
I hope your tummy settles down and that you're ok in the morning. I keep telling the boy that when he does "robot emotionless mode" it leaves me feeling so lonely in this. I have to kick his arse into shape lol.
xx

 

[gems]

I'm sure everything will be ok. Try not to worry too much hun. I also have my scan tomorrow morning I'm feeling a bit nervous too xx

 

[babyblonde]

Good luck tomorrow to both Gems!!!!!

Sure everything will be fine xxx

 

[larisa]

i no exactly how you feel hun.i had a missed miscarrriage at 16 weeks (baby stopped passed at 11)
and then when i got pregnant again i was soo happy but soo scared ..but if i said im scared i think something is not right my OH wud say ohh now your being silly ...and then i felt like i couldnt talk to him but then when we went to the scan and everything was ok he was like see i told you so ..i just think men dont like to think about the negative side of things hun!!! which in a way is gud but annoying for us ...i hope everything goes well at your scan hun!!! x

 

[gems2209]

awwwww thank you all soooo much, at least i can come on here to moan, rant and talk to you lot im trying not to worry (though don't think its working), im going to go and watch a film in a bit and see if it will help take my mind off it all. At least my scan is nice and early.
Thank you all again

 

[gems2209]

Oh and gems good luck with your scan hunx Let us know how it goes

 

[sarah113]

good luck hun

 

[gems]

Oh and gems good luck with your scan hunx Let us know how it goes

Thank u hun

 

[gems2209]

hello all, well im back lol. Didn't want to start new topic coz there seems to be so much bad new at the min didn't know what to do

BUT everything is fine and i had my date right too which i was really pleased with
Just have to wait till the 20 week scan now to see bean again i'm thinking of going for a private scan at around 16weeks, found a place in cardiff that will do sexing scans at that time and it's only £79.

Look am going on again will put some pics up later. Thank you all for your kind words

 

[Frog99]

Hurray! Glad everything went well at the scan!
I saw my baby at an early scan at 8wks and now I can't wait to see him/her again next week at my scan. I'm nervous as anything too but keep telling myself that I've had no bleeding since wk8, no cramps and I still have morning sickness so I shouldn't be worrying!

Look forward to seeing your pics!

 

[gems2209]

Awwwww thank you im sooooo happy. As for your scan i really do know how feel hun, as you said all has been fine since 8 wk scan and if morning is there then you can bet baby is too good luck.
I have never had on any of mine, which is a pain on times least you know all is well when you have it, but also glad i don't have to spend half my day with head down loo

 

[sarah113]

Glad everything went well

 

[Jaded Diamond]

I'm so glad everything went ok for you hun!!
xx