got my dates totally wrong!

[hayley25]

I got my ovulation dates totally wrong and have no idea how-must have been having a blonde moment where i forgot how to count!!- so i was unable to test for ovulation but we were doing the deed anyway so thats okay.
But, my worry is...i havent acyually ovulated-i am taking my temp (first month) and there has been no increase?? does that mean i havent ovulated? I had the usual stomach cramps-still have them now actually. maybe, coz i only have one ovary i ovulate every other month?? i am having a 21 day blood test next week so i guess i will find out if i ovulated then...god, im soo stressed.

im really trying to stay strong but im starting to give up...im waiting for the easy part of my life to begin...surely someone cant have shite happen for 22yrs...when is it going to end and my turn to be happy?? At least i am with the love of my life who i have known since i was 4!

sorry for the moan.x

 

[Naomi D]

Aw, Hayley dont give up hope sweetie. Often good things are just around the corner, and you just have to stay positive. I cant offer much advice, Im sorry, though I do know that some ov test kits come in different hormone detection levels, so maybe you need a more sensitive one? I hope the blood test gives you the result you're hoping for, and that you get preggers v soon. Chin up, and have a virtual hug!

 

[Geminiblue]

sending you a hug and lots of positivity hope you feel better soon xxx

 

[LouiseB]

Aw come on Hayley, being with the love of your life is a bigger accomplishment than your giving it credit - you're very very lucky!

Temperature charting isn't easy... well i'm not finding it very easy anyway I'm a walking ice cube apparently.

It has to be exact. Heart rate, room temp, body part, etc or any changes could be masked.

It's your first month, you can't really depend on it yet.

Please don't give up. It'll all work out

 

[hayley25]

thanks everyone for your wise words!! just been to the docs and he said the temp thing wasnt an accurate sign but will find out from the blood test next week if i have ovulated or not!!
just find it a bit fustrating at times!
xx

 

[clem]

Hi hayley, I spent the first few months of ttc permanently confused, but it does get easier to read your own body, you really will start to know without all the temperature tracking or POAS (though nothing could stop me peeing on sticks at least twice a day coming up to ovulation or pg testing dates). You'll get better at it i promise

 

[hayley25]

Thanks clem,we have actually being ttc for 16months now but only been doing the temp thing for A month! We Are now getting referred as we both are not at 100%. Also just found out that we both have a infection so are now on antibiotics! Just waiting and trying! Have you seen any specialists yet?
I enjoyed the thread u started!!! Don't get upset.
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