i.love
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I've read a few books about how to care for your child's health - how to feed, bath, put them to sleep, etc. Now I'm after some advice on the psychological aspect of raising a child. I am looking or a book that would address questions like:
- to punish or not to punish a child? If yes, from what age and how? Is bribing them with sweets a good idea? What about the naughty step and reward charts, or whatever they are called?
- how to teach a child to be tidy and to do work around the house?
- is it ok to make a child do things by scaring them? Like: "if you don't brush your teeth, they will all fall out" lol. Or "if you don't stop crying, I will call a witch/gremlin/policeman and they will take you away". I don't think it's acceptable, but some people do this, unfortunately, including my dad. Would be good to be able to show him a book that says not to do this!!
You get the idea. Any recommendations? And what do you think about the above?
- to punish or not to punish a child? If yes, from what age and how? Is bribing them with sweets a good idea? What about the naughty step and reward charts, or whatever they are called?
- how to teach a child to be tidy and to do work around the house?
- is it ok to make a child do things by scaring them? Like: "if you don't brush your teeth, they will all fall out" lol. Or "if you don't stop crying, I will call a witch/gremlin/policeman and they will take you away". I don't think it's acceptable, but some people do this, unfortunately, including my dad. Would be good to be able to show him a book that says not to do this!!
You get the idea. Any recommendations? And what do you think about the above?