Going stir crazy!!!

[sparkle82]

Hi ladies, I've read thru sum ov ur posts/ threads on here & feel for u all that r in the agonisin waiting game 2 concieve. My story is I've bin ttc for 8 months, at the beginnin ov jan af reared her ugly head, I have a 28 day cycle & always bleed for 7 days. on the 20th jan I was hit by a really bad migraine ( not had 1 for a year) 6 days later in late jan I started again, didn't think 2 mch ov it but only lasted 5 days. Looking back I cansee this as odd but was sufferin wiv head that mch that it didn't register at the time. Had sore breasts heartburn nausea( which I thawt was the migraine?) hot flushes etc binoff wrk wiv headaches/ migraines since then! &no af since the end ov jan??? Numerous bfn tests includin blood test. I feel pregnant ( I ava 8 yr old daughter) my stomachs growin but most symptoms av gone apart from sore breasts & peein alot!! My doc says if the tests neg I'm not preg & it's just stress, it's scarin me not knowin wots goin on & frustratin me that I'm in limbo!!argh!! Sori 4 the long post just needed 2 spill it all out!! I don't think there anyway I cud b preg now & not av a bfp?

 

[Mamafy]

Hi

How long ago was the blood test? Normally when a Hpt says negative and then a blood test says negative I would take that as negative But that still doesn't explain your missing AF. Has your Dr suggested any further tests?

 

[sparkle82]

No just 2 wait for af? But 4 how long? Gettin frustrated wiv all the waitin. Just want 2 get on wiv ttc but feel like I'm on hold. The blood test was done just ova 2 weeks ago. Said 2 my OH if no af by nxt wk then will av 2 go c anotha doc 4 a 2nd opinion. Thanks for replyin av no 1 2 tlk 2 about this & just needed 2 sound it out

 

[JJ Mum]

Sparkle - feel for you all this waiting , thats a long time, I don't know if you could get a BFN and still be pregnant after what could be about 9/10 weeks of potential pregnancy, perhaps others will now, some of the girls have had this problem and then got a BFP,

Wishing you all the luck, and yes do keep on at the doctors, as missing AF is not right.

 

[sparkle82]

Thanks jj mum, I will go back if nothing happens, just don't want 2 sound like a crazy woman wen they've sent me away already but be nice for them to find out the reasoning behind it. Can't believe my bodies played such a cruel trick!!!

 

[ema-lou24]

im kind of in the same situation as you.
im now 18 days late, and im never late. been to docs etc but still saying im negative, altho he said if nothing in 2 weeks ive to go for bloods.
it is frustrating tho. im really trying not to think about it.

hope you get your bfp hun, ive now got to the point i want AF to come so i can ttc again.

here if u need a chat hun xx

 

[sparkle82]

thanks ema-lou,

thats the mind frame im in 2day, just wnt af 2 appear so can get on wiv ttc. At least 30 days late now so not lookin likely that I could be preg, otherwise I surely would have had bfp by now.
Just never missed af before (apart from preg wiv my daughter) so y does it happen wen ttc??? tryin not 2get stressed now but very hard not 2!!

Thank you for ur mes really appreciate it, hope u get ur bfp aswell babe.

same if u wnt 2 tlk x x