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Getting Jiggy with it...

Lolly85x

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... So when is it ok to start having sex again? My little boy will be 4 weeks on Sunday, I am waiting to get my 6 week check and implant in my arm before I do anything!
But I am right as rain downstairs.
Just wondered what everyone's else's experiences and thoughts were?!?xx
 
I had a section so no change 'down there' but I'm wondering the same. It's not yet been 3 weeks for me so I'm thinking at least another week but I have no pain anymore and my stitches are healing well. I don't want to rush things but we haven't dtd since tri 2!!!!
Would be good to know what people think or have done xx
 
it s been 3 weeks since i gave birth not had full sex yet just fourplay.dont think i am ready for full blown sex going wait a week or so x
 
We haven't dtd either yet and its been 3 weeks. I'm going to give it a week or so before I even think about it. Shame I'm bfing as there might have been a few glasses of wine involved (as suggested by a PFer in another thread) for dutch courage!! LOL!
xx
 
Its been 3 and a half weeks and I'm starting to give it some thought, but still losing brown blood. Haven't dtd since 28th July and we'r both having withdrawal symptoms lol.
I suppose each person is different, and everyone is ready at different times x

Tapatalking from my blackberry!
 
We haven't dtd either yet and its been 3 weeks. I'm going to give it a week or so before I even think about it. Shame I'm bfing as there might have been a few glasses of wine involved (as suggested by a PFer in another thread) for dutch courage!! LOL!
xx
just noticed ur baby was born the day before my little girl
 
I'm just waiting for my six week check and suitable contraception then it's game on!
 
My son is now 5 weeks, and as it was my oh's birthday on Wednesday, I decided to give him an extra little prezzie!! I was a bit worried as I'd had forceps and episiotomy but it all felt fine, he said it felt different, but he also wore a condom which obvs takes away a bit of sensation, but I can safely say, it was all good!! Xx
 
We dtd about 4 weeks after,.i.had ventouse and episiotomy.
Tell.you what, i felt like a virgin again. Take it slowly and relax, it will.be just fine

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My Little girl is 5 weeks and we haven't properly Dtd and wont be until ive had my 6 week check cause much as I adore Olivia I don't want another yet! lol.
we have done foreplay etc though. I find it really weird because O is in her Moses basket 5ft away.. anyone else find it odd? x

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I can't wait to dtd again (it's been a long time lol) - but at the same time I'm dreading it a little. I also had a ventouse and an episiotomy, and I'm still a little tender now after 3 weeks. I'm thinking a couple of weeks before we get it on again...
 
I had Harry 8 weeks ago and we still haven't dtd, although I was bleeding for 6 weeks on it, just had my check up and all is fine with my section scar so maybe DH will get lucky soon lol. Bit nervous about doing anything! Xx
 
I think I waited about 13 weeks after she was born , I had a very difficult few weeks with ruby and sex was the last thing on my mind , when we eventually did it again I did feel like a virgin lol I was do scared haha x
 
Meri is 8 weeks old on Tuesday. We tried to dtd for the first time on Thursday but it hurt too much!! Can't explain the pain very well but felt a bit like there was something catching :( not sure whether to go get checked out at the doctors. Mums don't get a 6 week check around here anymore, just babies.
 
Tbh my check.consisted of couple of questions - about contraception,.whether i am smoking and breastfeeding.

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Might have to give the alcohol method a try. Ha.
 
We have had a bit of foreplay, and it didn't feel any different, there was no pain... And I asked my boyfriend if it still felt the same. Ha! He said yes...
 
We waited 3 weeks and I had c section. I felt fine.

And em I know what you mean about baby being in same room lol!!!!!
 
3 weeks both times after two sections x well it was closer to four but you know what i mean x

Only thing i worried about was infection in my wound and getting caught out but put my patch on at day 24 missed day 21 lol x

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