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Once every couple of weeks if he's lucky 😂 I just feel tired and uncomfortable all the time so difficult to get in the mood!
 
Since my pelvis issue started two weeks ago, no... its too painful!


 
I can't remember the last time we DTD, normally that would bother me as I have the higher sex drive, but I just can't be bothered anymore! :oooo: :nap:
 
Few times a week, making the most of not needing contraception :lol: :shock:

(and we know it will be off the menu for a good while , soon!!)

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Thank goodness ladies, I don't feel so bad now. We are all in the same boat x
 
Few times a week, making the most of not needing contraception :lol: :shock:

(and we know it will be off the menu for a good while , soon!!)

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lol how long do you think its off the menu after giving birth?

My o/h will die without it! :lol:
 
After my daughter we had none for about 6 months lol, I was really poorly though but think he's hoping it won't be as long this time!
 
We’ve still had sex regularly but now I’m 36 weeks it’s getting harder, I’m so swollen down below it’s not as fun anymore :lol: we’re still managing about once a week though!

After my son we didn’t have sex for 8 weeks, I’d had a bad episiotomy though so there was no way he was getting near me. We just done other things in the mean time! If everything goes okay with this labour we’ll probably only wait 3/4 weeks. My hubby has a high sex drive but as long as we do other things he’s okay :lol: xx
 
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I can't remember the last time we did anything sexual! God I feel terrible after seeing these posts of regular sexy time!! My poor husband, the thing is he hasn't said anything so I assume he isn't too bothered! Lol x
 
Was a good few months (both times) before I felt up to anything.

Breastfeeding killed my libido!

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At least once a week for us.

I won’t be dtd afterwards until it feels like it has returned to a suitable state.
 
I have a ridiculously low libido but this past few weeks I could seriously hump his leg when he passes. Aren't hormones crazy?

He's not complaining.

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Couple of times a week still atm (im 32wks)

Waited 18 days after giving birth to my LO before last time, unless any reason why not probably same time scales again ��
 
Very very rarely �� after a couple of bleeds in the summer, and because of my blood group requiring a day in hospital if I bleed, it’s put me off!! But I know after baby comes we won’t be able to for ages (bled for so long after daughter) so I may make an effort in these last few weeks!!
 
About twice a week at least. If we dont have full intercourse we do other stuff. I find orgasms far more intense being pregnant!
 
Yes i`am almost 29 weeks & we`ve been managing at least twice a week sometimes more, Far more intense when pregnant, We`ve got to make the most of it while we can X
 
Oddly don't think we've DTD since I posted on this thread :shock:
 
did it yesterday and day before after a week. It feels more painful than before and weird.
 

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