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i know this shouldnt be here but i dontl like people on the section it should be on would read it and be able to help
my question is if the father of ur baby is on there birth certificate can they stop u and the baby moving away from the father even if ur not together
i am thinking of moving not really sure where to but just thinking iabout it and wanted to know if i would be allowed to

does this make sence or not ???
 
if i have understood right, then no, the dad cant stop you moving away.

I mived back to Slough from wales when my first marriage broke down and took Charlie and Ethan with me, There was nothing he could have done about it as long as i still allowed access, he wasnt bothered anyway so it worked out well! lol

xx
 
I think they can only stop you moving out of the country not to a different area, not sure though but that's what I thought. :think:
 
well i know someone whos moving to new zealand and taking the baby, her and the dad split up before the baby was born and she refused to put his name on the birth certificate..his solicitor said theres nothing he can do to stop her!
 
She has every right to move if she hasn't put him on the birth certificate but I think Sarah has put B's dad on the BC so she wanted to know if she can move without him stopping her. :)
 
If his name is on the BC he cannot stop you from moving to another area as long as you still allow him visits but he can stop you from moving to another country.

I know this because my Mum and Dad aren't together and his name is on the BC and she has to ask his permission to take me and my Brother abroad, without it and with a solicitor's help he could stop my Mum from taking us!
 
awww thanks guys i wanted to know as Garry is on the certificate and wondered if he could syop me sounds like he cant tho :D
 
are you really goig to move then hun?

where are you thinking of going?

xx
 
Does garry see B alot hun?
 
the father can contest the move if it means that he cannot see his child whether he is on the birth certificate or not.
If you move so far away that he cannot reasonably see B then he can apply to the courts and have it stopped unless there is a real good reason you have to move. And if there is a good reason then the father can apply for you to pay for the cost (or some of it) of the travel to see his son/daughter.

Your best bet is to go and get a free half hour solicitors appointment and find out whats what before doing anything. I would not advise moving away if it will cause friction or upset unless of course it is the best interest of the child.
 
my ex boyfriend had a kid with another woman before i met him, she had got the CSA involved and he was paying maint towards Christopher, and he had regular access up untill the lad was around 3 then his ex moved without telling him and he never saw his son after that, the csa wouln't give any info as to where they were. he always wanted to see his son but couldn't find him, we split up and i found out a yr later that my ex had leukamia and he died later that year. i often wonder if he ever got too see his son before he died. :( as far as i know he was on the birth certificate.

so they cant stop u from moving, but sound like garry aint too responsible anyway, unlike my ex who wanted to b involved but never got the chance.
 
no no one can stop her from moving but they can make her pay for the travel costs of the childs father to visit the child.
 
thanks girls i may be offered a adminstarion job for my company up north which i am really interested in!!
but didnt know wot i could do with B
 
am i right in thinking that they can also query a holiday abroad.
 
forgot to add that kieran's sperm donor isnt on the birth certificate and kieran had my maiden name. when me and jon went to the solicitors to change his surname to the same as jon we were told that his sperm donor could come back and say that he wanted it changed back even though he wasnt on bc. it doesnt mean that he would have got his own way though but he could contest it.
 
yeah it is about abroad, i have had to ask G to take Braydon abroad
which really sucks as i aint seen him in 3 months and had two abusive msgs of him in that time thats all, grrr
 
if its for a job then you can go without permission as gary doea not have parental rights unless he applies for them. . Its just that garry can ask you to pay for the cost of seeing B.
 
mm have read it now. gary does have P.R if he went with you to register the birth. Its changed.

i would say go and see a solicitor. stuff like this can get messy and upsetting.
 

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