feeling strange that it will no longer be the '3 of us'...

[katie05]

Im so looking forward to meeting this lo and having 2 children but it also feels strange that it wont be us 3 any more. Is that stupid? On my days off me and my little fella do allsorts and it feels kinda strange that a new little person is coming soon who i will love just as much as him but who will obviously change the dynamics of our family life. (in more good ways i may add)
In a way i feel guilty for him as my time wont be just his but when i think about it your first has you to themselves for those few years dont they.

 

[ANNA27]

Im sure you will all be fine, I felt exactly the same as you when I was pregnant with my second, but once she was born, everything was fine.
Im sure your son will love being a big brother

 

[Mildly]

I feel a bit the same but because of my dog, not an older child

I'm sure families adjust really quickly to new additions

 

[fuffins1981]

I feel the same!

My son and I have been a little team. His dad split with me when I waspregnant. His dad has him some nights in a week....My partner and I live 28 miles apart....So, my son and I have always had alone time.

In the near future this is going to change. I want Tyler to still realise my time with him is very important. I am acutally a little scared of the changes