feeling sad today

[rach]

found out on the weekend that another baby is to be buried next to jamie sometime this week apparently its a 1 month old cot death have been feeling really down ever since the thought of someone else having to go through the pain of losing a child is awful plus im now going to be scared of going to the cemetary this week as i dont know how im going to react to seeing a new grave next to ours life is so shit and so unfair
and just to add to my misery i have to listen to my next door neighbour all day again in her garden as its a nice day i wouldnt mind but she has 4 children all under 6 and all she does is scream and swear at them they are always crying the things she says to those poor children i want to thump her one of these days im going to report her she did it last week while health visitor was here she was not amused hope she does it again this week when hv is here hopefully she will report her xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Hypnorm]

You can always report her anoymously,
Sorry you are feeliing down, don't know what to say ((hug))

 

[Wobbles]

I just want to send you a x x x

 

[lauramumof2]

dont really know what to say either, just wanted to let you know im thinking of you.

 

[sophie]

im the same as above, i am thinkin of u hun
xx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

awww hunni im so sorry ur feeling really bad again im sending u loads of (((hugs)))

 

[Dee1985]

its not fair this world aint, now iv become a mum it hurts so much to hear of babies dying ect, before i used to see these things on the news and think "oh thats not nice" but now it really upsets me and for a moment i put my self in other peoples shoes and imagin i have lost a child. it breaks my heart.

and its so terrible to think that parents are going through this all the time.

my heart goes out to you rach, you knock me over by how you have held your head high. im sure its tearing you to peices but you come on here and make us all smile

 

[Andrianne]

I'm sorry you're feeling sad Rach... (((Rach)))

Hope you feel better soon.

xxx

 

[x-kirsty-x]

my heart goes out to you rach, you knock me over by how you have held your head high. im sure its tearing you to peices but you come on here and make us all smile

i'll second that

 

[amy]

i have a neighbour like that, the children are whimpering in there bedrooms, shes always screaming and swearing, why on gods earth our they aloud to have children is beyond me, my husband always tells me i try and save the world as im always interfering ( spelt wrong) and trying to help everybody, but when it comes to children my stomach turns to think what they are going through, i hate it. rach im so sorry for what you went through no woman should have to go through that, my heart goes out to you, (((((((((( hugs))))))))) you are the bravest woman i know. i hope we get our bfp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxtake care xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[rach]

thanks everyone had a real sorry for myself day yesterday it just hurts me so much when i think of people like me who have lost a child or people who are desperately ttc baby number 1 and then theres the woman next door to me with 4 children that she really does not deserve im not usually 1 to comment on how anyone brings their children up but surely im not wrong in thinking screaming and swearing at children as young as 18 months is the not the correct thing to do it breaks my heart
xxxxxxxx

 

[HayleyB]

My neighbour is the same, she's got 4 kids, and they're all really nice. She shouts at them when they come to our back gate to speak to the dog, cos they love the puppy and they talk to her from their bedroom window, and we hear her going nuts at them late at night....
And when the kids are there at the weekend she has loads of mates round, and a couple of times i've heard them shouting "save me a line" which just made me want to go nuts. Bad impression to set for kids.... i mean i'm not one to be nosy, and if they're doing it when the kids aren't there then fair enough, its their choice... but when the kids are there?!?

My friend was the same with baby leon's grave when the same happened, she was worrying how she'd react and stuff when she went to see leon. It must be so hard for you too... hope its ok when you go xox

 

[rach]

thanks hun xxx

 

[Anna Marie]

Big Hugs Rach.. xxxx

 

[rach]

thanks anna marie hun hope you and bodette are doing well xxxxxxxx

 

[violet-glow]

Dont be to sad about the gave next to Jamie, just think he will have someone to play with while he watches over his mummy + family

As for those stupid idiots next door, what goes around comes around.
Dont be upset or worried etc if you want to report them, if you feel there is a case there then go ahead and do it. She sounds like a horrible mother.

 

[Jaidy]

Rach you are so brave and I admire you so much. Life is so frustrating sometimes and questioning why things happen is such a hard part of it.
Sending you sooooo much love and hugs and im sure Jamie would not want you to feel too sad, I bet he likes to look down and see a smile on your face Hugs to you

 

[jolly]

new to this

 

[dyscochick]

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[cosmicgirl]

This post is 5 years old girls x