Feeling really down today :(

[Mummy2Adam]

Im just not feeling very happy today
Im counting down the days till we can ttc again when really i should be counting the days till my 20 week scan.
I just want the new year to be here now, which i feel guilty about as im wishing christmas away, which my little man is really looking forward to x x

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[Nurse 26]

Sorry your feeling down hun!

Since i had my mmc, i go through being down one day then fine the next, its really hard.

I should have been 20 weeks at new year so thats going to be a difficult time, whats getting me through is focusing on TTC again! i know you are planning to in Januray again, i'm just throwing myself into that which is making me feel better.

Once Christmas week comes it will fly by and then we will both nearly be at testing time already

Hope you feel better soon,
xx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Thanks hunny, i am up and down at the moment. One minute im happily looking foward to the fun of ttc then next im thinking what if.
My scan should of been the 21st
My OH and me where so excited when we got the date because it was before christmas and we were going to find out the sex this time, as we didnt with Adam.
Im just having a rubbish day all round which isnt making me feel any better x x


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[Nurse 26]

I know how you feel, i keep wondering when i will stop getting down about the whole thing, then i want to kick myself because it only happened 4 weeks ago! time really passes slow tho

I also am awaiting a reply about a written complaint i had to put in (a horrible consultant, long story) kinda wish that would come so i can draw a line under the whole thing.

I guess we just have to tell ourselves that it could be our turn again in Januray hopefully we will both get Januray BFP's x x x x x

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Thank you hunny. Im feeling abit better now.
Hope you get your reply soon, maybe then it will give you some closure

I really hope 2011 will be a happier year and that there are bfp for us all just around the corner x x


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[Bella2]

hey hon
Sorry to hear you're feeling so down, have you made any plans for the 21st Dec to take your mind off things? Perhaps doing something special with your little boy or your OH will help? x x x

Nurse26 - I'm rooting for a BFP for you in the new year 2! x x

 

[Bella2]

Was just thinking how weird it is that us 3 all had due dates around the same time and all MC'd at a similar time. Maybe someone up there will work their magic and we will all get our BFPs around the same time soon! x x

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Thanks Bella

You girlies are the best, you have really helped me through these past few weeks

Havent decided what im doing on the 21st yet, im open to ideas?? OH is in work so its just my little man and me x x


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[Nurse 26]

M2A - maybe you should do something fun with adam, bowling, cinema. or shopping and buy somthing really nice for yourself.

Bella2 - thanks hun, glad we are all testing in january so we can support each other especially if we all end up in tri1 together as well it will be a wonderful but tough time for us all. did we all so get pregnant first cycle? how strange.

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Yeah hunny im sure it was first cycle for us all x x


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[Princess81]

Don't really have any advice hun but just wanted to give you a big and the same to all of you girlies who are in the same position xx

 

[Nurse 26]

Thanks princess81!

hope everything goes well with the op, looking forward to hearing that you are all better.

 

[Princess81]

Thanks princess81!

hope everything goes well with the op, looking forward to hearing that you are all better.

Cheers, I'll try to keep you guys updated when I can. Hopefully after it's all sorted and settled down I'll be able to TTC properly and actually have some constructive input into the ttc threads xx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Thanks princess81
Hope everything goes well x x


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[Bella2]

Yes I agree with Nurse26 treat yourself and your LO to something nice - maybe a new top for yourself or something to pamper yourself with such as some nice bath stuff/candles? Cinema is a good idea as you can loose yourself in the film, would be a good distraction.

That is even spookier that we all got PG first month of trying! x x x

 

[amandapanda]

Sorry you're having a down day hun, I know it's not easy. Even though I am happily pregnant again I am finding myself thinking about the one I lost as I would have been due at the end of Jan.....I think you should just focus on giving your little man a fantastic Xmas and I agree that doing something special with him on your scan date is a good idea - you'll never forget what you've lost, but focusing on what you have may help you get through such a difficult day xx

Wishing all of you ladies BFP's and healthy pregnancies for the New Year xxxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Think i might treat myself but im going to definetely spoil my little man. Might take him to see santa again and see if he will let me ask for bfp for all us girlies in Jan

Thanks Amanda, its lovely to hear you are happily pregnant after going through this yourself x x


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