feeling crap...

[Nic'n'Keeley]

feeling crap today.... i don't know what it is yesterday i was fine now today i'm not...i thnk i'm being so strong and that i'm so over my ex...but i'm not
keeley's spending the day with her dad and he's mum today and i'm gonna be sooo lonely that sounds patheic but its usually only me and keeley

in a stupid way i think i'm jealous of her
i don't miss my ex but i still miss the company as all my mates have girlf or boyf and i just feel so alone all the time

i try and do things like get me and keeley sorted with a house and stuff and i can't even do that cos of the stupid ciitizen's advice place i feel like failure

 

[Em78]

aw hun sorry you are feeling down. you're bound to have down days, a break up is traumactic anyway let alone with a lo involved.

must be hard with keeley not there too - they can usually turn your down days round with their smiles.

maybe try and turn it into a positive day. you have some time to yourself so catch up on things or pamper yourself, do your nails and your hair or something thats just for you. keep yourself busy and try not to dwell on things.

and if all else fails come on here and have a damn good moan and cry!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

Hi Nic

Just wanted to give you my support. I was alone from when i was around 4 - 5 months pregnant, until i met my hubby when Kieran was just turned 5 and it is a lonely time and you do get down moments, but I do believe that things happen for a reason. You are a lovely person and a great mum. It is your ex's loss.

In a way i felt luckier as Kieran's sperm donor didnt want anything to do with him so i thought that this was better for kieran as he didnt have to put up with a dead loss for a dad and he loves my DH to bits.

Things will improve, once you get your home and benefits sorted out. Good luck with the future and i hope that this year will be great for you.
xx

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

aw hun sorry you are feeling down. you're bound to have down days, a break up is traumactic anyway let alone with a lo involved.

must be hard with keeley not there too - they can usually turn your down days round with their smiles.

maybe try and turn it into a positive day. you have some time to yourself so catch up on things or pamper yourself, do your nails and your hair or something thats just for you. keep yourself busy and try not to dwell on things.

and if all else fails come on here and have a damn good moan and cry!



xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I was going to suggest the same thing, turn the day around, its still early - run yourself a nice relaxing bath, put on your favourite music, and pamper yourself silly! you'll feel so much more refreshed and special, it will be worth it promise

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

i think what scares me the most is as my ex has a job that he'l get sorted out with a house and stuff then he'll take me to court and il have nothing

and also that when keeley gets older she'll wanna go live with him and he's new girlf

 

[Melly+2]

dont wprry hun, you atre doing a great job, text me if u wana talk x

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

i hope i am she's with him today she's only been gone an hour and i miss her already lol

 

[Melly+2]

thats natural, i am the same when my hope goes to her nanans, dont worry hun your doing a great job x

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

i think what scares me the most is as my ex has a job that he'l get sorted out with a house and stuff then he'll take me to court and il have nothing

and also that when keeley gets older she'll wanna go live with him and he's new girlf

I understand your concerns here hun, but trust me, it will never happen!

Have a look here, http://www.direct.gov.uk/Parents/Fa...sArticles/fs/en?CONTENT_ID=4002954&chk=JgXq/k it might ease some of your concerns

Pm me if you need to xxx

 

[BubbleOne]

Hey Nic
Sorry to hear you are feeling a bit low xx

I think you're amazing for going it alone at all.

You contacted me vis Netmums and I replied to your email. PM me if you want to chat or meet up etc xxx

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

thanks i've pm'd some of you