Feeling a bit Low

[babyroo]

Sorry to have a bit of a moan but I just feel like I've got to let some things out.
I'm feeling really low today, dunno if its my hormones or what.From yesterday I have a complete feeling of fear worrying about every single thing to do with the baby, about if its okay , the birth (which is completely freaking me out at present), if I'm going to be a good Mum and if I'm going to cope okay.
I mentioned it to hubby this morning and he just said it was normal hugged me then changed subject.
I suppose I'm feeling a bit lonely too, we live in a little hamlet where there is'nt any shops or anything and dont see any neighbours often for weeks on end.
Sorry for the moan just having a good old will pull myself together soon.

 

[Nicola]

Big hugs, I can relate to how your feeling, I had a few days like that a few weeks ago. Not nice to go through. Between weeks 15 and 19 your hormone levels will drop as baby is capable of making his or her own then and it can lead to changes in mood, headaches etc. I had the headaches and a few weepy (feeling sorry for myself) days and I had no idea why untill I read about the sudden drop in hormones. My midwife at the 16 week check said it was "a possibility" but the one I saw at 20 weeks (she was lovely) said that is what it was, the drop in levels that are built up so high when you first get pregnant etc - the things we are putting our bodies through.....huge cuddles, your not alone in this, were all in the same boat xxx

 

[Snuggle]

Aww sorry you're feeling low

Big hugs

 

[Sabrina]

Sorry to read you are feeling a bit down at the moment.

It can be difficult when you are feeling isolated especially what with your hormones being up/down from the pregnancy.

It sounds like your OH is trying to be supportive so that's helpful.

I find this board really good for support. When I'm feeling a bit worried about something or nervous about coping etc., I come and read some of the posts from the new mums side. It's quite reassuring to read everyone's experiences and see how they have pulled through.

Hope you are feeling a bit happier soon. x

 

[Baileysmummy]

babyroo, im sure it is just your hormones playing up huni,

i feel like this quite often that not now, not sure if its cos of pregnancy as well but as someone else is going through it im sure it is huni...

Hope you feel up there again really soon
xxxx

 

[weenik]

Hi babyroo, hope you start to feel a bit better soon. I think it's normal to worry about how we will cope when a new baby is in our lives, but that just shows that you care. Come on here whenever you feel down, or get on the phone to your friends and family - there will always be someone to chat to. Sending you cuddles, and you'll be a great mum xx

 

[evemarie8]

Oh Babyroo,

I’m so sorry you are having a bad day. I had a hormonal episode last night, went to bed knowing I needed to get some sleep, then woke up at midnight in tears and tore strips off my o/h. Blamed him for not being organised/not supporting me enough/not talking to me enough etc. I even accused him of not wanting the baby at all!! Poor guy didn’t know what had hit him being woken up in the middle of the night by a hysterical pregnant woman, so I am on a major guilt trip today and shall be on my best behaviour all weekend!!!

 

[Tangerinedream]

Im sorry you are feeling down, have a big hug
I have had days like this. I know it doesnt help when you are 'there' but its just a normal part of being pregnant. It will all be woth it when you are holding your precious baby in your arms

 

[Marijana FC]

Hey babyroo, I know exactly how you feel. I had similar episode a couple of days ago. I think I completely scared my husband . Poor him
As for feeling lonely, join the club. We've just moved to place we have no friends in, my family is in Serbia and my hubby travels a lot because of work... I've been on my own since Monday but I am trying to keep my spirits up! I am telling myslef that I have to be strong for the baby so I just play some good music and try to relax.
Hugs from me!

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

sorry your feeling so low hun hope you start to feel better soon.
Hrad when you feel so alone .
Katrina