:( Feel like a 90yr old granny!

[KellyHook]

Hi ladies,

Thought this thread would be better suited for the tri 3 ladies..

Well I'm on 23 and feel like 90.... I feel like I'm constantly wetting myself, I go toilet and empty my bladder and then when I'm finished and stand up it still feels like it trickles out, the amount of times I look at my leggings and I have a wet patch its unreal... And its even worse at the min as I have a horrendous cough so I constantly have my legs crossed... I do pelvic floor exercises and it just seems to be getting worse! And the bigger I get I feel like I'm just going to be stuck to the toilet... If my waters where to break don't think I'd even notice!
Do any of you suffer with this, or do you have any advice that will help me to try and improve this.. I don't even want to go out in case people notice I have a wet patch!!!

Sorry for the moan... Just don't know what to do!!!

Xxx

 

[pinkymum]

Yes yes yes! I've been peeing myself for weeks haha. I have no idea how to stop it either.

 

[toni64539]

I'm the same Kelly, and have been from very early on. Not nice is it. I have to wear pads all the time cos of every laugh, cough, sneeze, does get you down a bit, but after the birth it should calm down and if not, there's things doctors can do, just one of those annoying things we have to live with for now

 

[KellyHook]

Pads it is then!! I just thought it shouldn't be bad as it is at my stage, but Obviously its normal... Roll on 13weeks!!! Thanks girls xx

 

[nadine]

Yep been like that since about 25 weeks, if I laff/sneeze/coff it's terrible

I try to wear long tops in case I do wet my self,
Panty liners
N also u can get Lil packs of "fanny wipes" I call them hahaha they are made for down there n smell nice but have the right ph level for ur fluf so if u do have an accident u can freshen up straight away x x

 

[Sunnyb]

I had a bad cough which led me to peeing myself all the time & I invested in some Always pads & kept changing those. Far easier than constantly washing clothes & feeling paranoid about wet patches

Sunnyb xxx

 

[KellyHook]

I will get some pads tomorrow, which will be strange as the last time I wore pads was when I was still at school! Xx

 

[xx emma xx]

I need to wear a panty liner most days cos its either leakage or discharge. I keep meaning to practice my pelvic floor exercises but always forget. X

 

[BabysMomma]

N also u can get Lil packs of "fanny wipes" I call them hahaha they are made for down there n smell nice but have the right ph level for ur fluf so if u do have an accident u can freshen up straight away x x

Nadine, your terms for things are so funny Makes me laugh x

 

[nadine]

N also u can get Lil packs of "fanny wipes" I call them hahaha they are made for down there n smell nice but have the right ph level for ur fluf so if u do have an accident u can freshen up straight away x x

Nadine, your terms for things are so funny Makes me laugh x

Haha I couldn't think of the proper name of the wipes, I think it's feminal or summat but if I say it as above in no u all no what I mean hehehe x x x x

 

[Vicxzy]

Ive managed so far not to do a wee wee (just about!) its so hard with bubs head pressing down lol.
Im sure it will happen in the next few weeks though!x

 

[Constantstar]

Def get some panty liners will keep u feeling much fresher! X

 

[HeppiBean]

Oh dear! I didn't know to expect that I haven't had any problems with it yet but I do have quite good control of my pelvic floor muscles, have done for a while... Think I'll get started doing some exercises to make sure... :/ And buy some pads just incase lol xx

 

[KellyHook]

Right, I bought some panty liners this morning when I took brooke to school and by the time I got home I had a wet patch again.. Yesterday I had to change my bottoms 3 times and knickers loads... Its a joke!! So panty liner on and in 1hr and 30mins I've had to change it as It was full and I felt damp... Is that a normal amount of leakage???
I think I'm going to have to buy some super absorbent pads instead of panty liners...

 

[Vicxzy]

Right, I bought some panty liners this morning when I took brooke to school and by the time I got home I had a wet patch again.. Yesterday I had to change my bottoms 3 times and knickers loads... Its a joke!! So panty liner on and in 1hr and 30mins I've had to change it as It was full and I felt damp... Is that a normal amount of leakage???
I think I'm going to have to buy some super absorbent pads instead of panty liners...

That does sound a lot is it def wee? What abt maternity pads? Or Tena ladys?x

 

[xx emma xx]

That sounds a lot. I usually only use 2 per day and it's not cos it needs changed I just change it to freshen up. X

 

[KellyHook]

It is a lot, its really embarrassing, I have no idea if its just wee, but seriously I can't be that weak down there!! Its only been this past 3/4 days where its really been leaking.. I'm going to the toilet regularly so my bladder is empty and then I just sit there on sofa and it feels like its just trickling out, but I just dread it when I cough as I know its going to leak even more!! Argghhh..... I'm defientely going to but some thicker more absorbant pads when I go to pick her up!

 

[Merfairy]

Hey, I am starting to get wet and some days I have heavy discharge (TMI) I am so glad I am not alone; my partner suggested I get some Tenna lady (cheeky) and thought it funny that I feel like I am wetting myself. I have avoided wearing pads, but think I will have to start as I have to change underwear sometimes three times a day and clothing I am wearing for one day only..

Why are we leaking fluid does it mean potential incontinence, or is it something that will go after baby comes.. I feel about 100 years old here some days and climbing the stairs can be hard work!! Oh the joys..

xxxxxx

 

[KatyMarie]

No matter how much I go to the loo, I basically constantly leak, its a nightmare and I really feel for you! But you're definitely not alone!

xx