Fears and anxiety

oh its good to hear I'm not alone in my fears.

Sazzylou - I was with my mam when she passed and I know what you mean about it being peaceful! It was but not sure thats helped my anxiety. I think too much!! I think thats the problem.

GGG - Although I can see your suggestion i am the biggest wuss there is, I used to love rollacoasters and stuff now you won't get me near one, just start sweating and panicking, so I'm not brave enough to to a bungee or anything similar :(

Thank you all for your replies! :hug: :hug: I hope all the others with same fear can get a bit of comfort out of the fact it seems to be a common fear cos I have :hug: :hug:

I don't feel so bad today, it's usually worse on a night when I'm tired and left alone with my own thoughts ! :hug:
 
I'm not afraid of dying as such, but the thought of anything happening to the kids can freak me out.

I know its normal for all mums to think that but I think maybe I take it too far sometimes....I dread driving them in case anything happens....I'm scared of carrying the baby in case I stumble or fall down the stairs....I worry when the boy falls over that he sustains greenstick injuries that will show up on his PM if he dies, that people think I'm abusing him

My DH blames the books I read for this but basically I think it's because I don't feel worthy of my children and that I'm always waiting for something to happen, when someone will tell me I'm not fit to have them :cry:

It's rubbish to be so scared isn't it? :hug:
 
I'm not afraid of dying but I am terrified of getting old. I'm 16 and sometimes I feel more like 60 :lol: it's so stupid :lol: I don't want to be old and vulnerable. I hate feeling vulnerable,it was bad enough when i was pregnant,at least that ended eventually.
 
Nic'n'Keeley said:
I'm scared of dying but i am more scared of what happens afterwards :cry:

ahh your an angel.. you'll go straight through to heaven! no worries :hug: :hug:
 
emma28 said:
I'm not afraid of dying as such, but the thought of anything happening to the kids can freak me out.


It's rubbish to be so scared isn't it? :hug:

Oh i have that too :( I worry so much about Beth that i HATE her going in anyone elses car but OH's (i dont drive) I avoid letting her go out with other people as much as i can, and ive already told relatives that i wont be needing lifts anywhere after this baby comes as i dont want her going in any cars....

I hate when MIL and FIL have Beth, cos all the bad things that could happen run through my mind. If they take her to the park im constantly in bits as i get convinced she's gonna be kiddnapped!!

All sots of weird things i think of.....really annoying. My Oh is always like "chill out", he cant understand it at all :rotfl:
 

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