F.E.D U.P.............. grr

[nadine]

Hi ladies

well just a general moan, feeling really fed up and down at mo......

cant get a council house unless i go in to a hostel with my little boy (which is a no go) so been so stressed out over past few weeks trying to decided what to do for best and were to go live with OH, so decided private rent and thankfully found a lovely new build ground floor apartment round corner from my sister and mum two bed an fair big so that lifted a bit of the stress untill i had to find money for bond an do all papers etc which thank fully is done now, so just a case of handing papers in and waiting to see if we get it......

then i find out with my tax credit when i put a fresh claim in as join with my fella when we get our place they will stop my moneys and it can take up to 10+ weeks to get anything ........which has stressed me as i only work part time n fella is self employed an it cost me 340 a month alone to send my child to day care never mind all bills an rent to find for new gaff (just seems impossible)

then it was my bday last sunday and my mum got rushed in hozzy really poorly (she has chrones but they cant operate as shes high risk) i wasn't allowed to see her coz of the swine flu for over a week and now they say i can, so been tonight but shes so ill wish i could do more

and to top it off my little lad has been really poorly to with a chest infection on antibiotics, i feel like ive not stopped

i feel stressed, low, tired and just in general really fed up.................its so much harder being pregnant with your second babys, i have no time to my self at all, if im not working , im running round after my son, if not that im sorting out my mum or nana whos in a care home n in genral people still expect me to be this strong level headed person to keep things together..................bler ss moan over

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Hi and sorry about your mam hope she is better soon.
The stress of getting a house i feel for you the council seems to be rubbish everywhere there is just no housing for anyone! I have to put up with a dickhead landlord trying to keep me captive!
I know pregnancy doesn't make it any easier either, benefits...don't get me started on them lol, they mess me about changing my payments all the time. I hope you feel better soon and get everything sorted and good luck on the house xx

 

[Lexusno1]

You got it rough at the minute babe. This would be a lot to deal with even if you weren't pregnant!

You have the added stress of the tax credit situation too. They really don't make it easy for parents to live together and work. It costs £545 a month to send our little man to nursery but because he 's 4 we get to send him to a government funded nursery so that's what we'll save a month thank god. Is ur little man 2? Not long til he gets grant hours if he is so that will be some money saved.

Sorry about ur Mum. Seeing people you love in situations where u can't help them is soul destroying at times. My mum has MS and when she's relapsing is so hard to see and not be able to do anything.

PM me if u even need a chat babe cos I know how it feels for things to get on top of u at times xxx

 

[midnight]

hope it all get better soon for you and you dont have to wait that long for tax credits i remember when i moved in with my dh and it took ages we ended having to use my dh credit card grrrrrr

 

[pinkymum]

Big hugs hun. Hope things start looking up for you soon! X x x x
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[jld123]

aww nadine that sounds so stressful! is there anyway you can get the hostel and not stay there? until they give you a house? I hope everything works out ok. & hope your mummy gets better real soon xx

 

[Lou_1]

hey

Its so stressfull when someone is ill hope ur mum gets bit better soon.

I know it sounds stupid as you so busy but make sure u try find a wee bit of time just to chill and get ur head together. I thik you take for granted ur first pregnancy and how much time you get to chill dont you and never seem to rest and now 2nd time round all u wanna do is relax and rest and its impossibe with another child. (well defo the case for me)

Hope it all works out for you in the end chick xx

 

[nadine]

Thank you girls, its reassuring to know others get a little down in the dumps to over similar things.

the council are a joke only if i stay in a hostel (which can take 6 month ) will i be put on a fast track for a house............. so knocked that on the head i wouldnt put my lil lad threw that

im feeling a little better today i just had an early night (must of helped) going to my mums house today to sport out her bills an wait for the washer man to come to fix her washer hahaha then ill come home and sort out my own house as it looks like a bombs hit it pmsl

lex yer my lil lad is nearly 2 and your right fingers crossed with the play group, i just have to get him dry first (hes lazy) ha but defo help plus when i move the area im going to has the best places for play groups an schools etc

lex ill pm u soon too (doh when i get a min )

 

[Lexusno1]

Busy busy again!

Ok darlin, whenever you get the chance. Glad you're feeling a bit better today, amazing what a good nights sleep can do aint it? I on the other hand got zero sleep minutes so ready to knock someones teeth out today!! lol

Speak soon hun xxx