Evil child...

[SarahB]

Our mother and baby group finished last week so all the mums decided to meet up at a soft play area today instead. There were other children there too, anyway I heard one of the little girls from our group crying (she is about 14 months old) and I went over to see what was wrong, there was another girl about 4 years old, not from our group, was nipping the little girls fingers really hard and had a really evil look on her face. I have never been angry with a child before but my god I was today. I chased her off and got the wee girls mummy for her, she was so upset bless her. I'm still in shock, I can't believe children can do that

 

[jenna]

thats horrible!
When i did some training at a primary school i tought some kids PE and one boy said 'she wont do anything shes right fat' and pointed to a little chubby girl sat in the corner. I just wanted to hit him kids can be so mean!

 

[Dee1985]

there a few children like it around its the parents fault!
one little boy theother week kept trying to put his shoes on in the soft ball centrew he was about 4 he couldnt do it and was loosing his temper Dior giggled about it then he came over to her while she was sat on my knee held his fist up to her annd said "not fucking funny" andpunched her in the head
felt like booting the little freak - but i marched out and toldhis mother - but she did tell him off

 

[jenna]

aww dionne thats awful!!

I hate that though, you want to blame the kid but you know its not always there fault. Usually you can match the parent to the child...i know that sounds awful but its true

 

[SarahB]

there a few children like it around its the parents fault!
one little boy theother week kept trying to put his shoes on in the soft ball centrew he was about 4 he couldnt do it and was loosing his temper Dior giggled about it then he came over to her while she was sat on my knee held his fist up to her annd said "not f**k funny" andpunched her in the head
felt like booting the little freak - but i marched out and toldhis mother - but she did tell him off

OMG poor Dior that's awful. I find horrible children scary, I can't imagine how they make a little child feel

 

[SarahB]

aww dionne thats awful!!

I hate that though, you want to blame the kid but you know its not always there fault. Usually you can match the parent to the child...i know that sounds awful but its true

It is awful but unfortunatley true

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

The majority of the time yes it is learned behaviour, but sometimes they may have a disorder such as ADHD, autism, or one of the many associated disorders. So its not always the parents fault. Just playing devils advocate lol.

When I was a kid there was this boy who was a year or 2 older than me and he was always hitting and kicking other kids, but his parents were lovely, everyone blamed them for his behaviour and made thier lives hell but looking back in hindsight im betting he had something like this it just wasnt recognised back then

 

[smurf]

I was in Tescos recently and this kid who was probably about 5/6 threw a potato at me it wasn't a small little jersey royal either. Luckily it only hit my shoulder but I went straight over to him mum and told her imagine if he's hit me in the tum I'd have trottled him there and then!!! She was so annoyed with him and gave him a right telling off.

 

[mary70]

i am not saying that alot of children dont have the conditions ggg but it is so easy for bad parents to use these terms instead of being good parents, i saw it every day when i was working and usually the children that did genuinely have these condition r from perfectly good parents

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

Oh I agree, its all too easy to pass problem kids off as having a medical reason when they dont, and yeah I know it happens, I was just pointing out that not ALL bad kids are "evil"

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

oh that poor kid
at nursery Braydon has been bit a few times but im so proud he never attacks back
and he has never hurt another kid (so nursery say) on purpose - he may have done by falling over but that is by accident