Every ones fallen out with us :(

[jenna]

My mum told me last night that she'd got a lot of calls off relatives saying they knew im pregnant. She told them i wasnt and one of my aunties start just saying it and saying it and said my mum was denying it because she was embarest about being a grandparent. . Most people said my mum was being a bitch not telling them and wont talk to us now. Anyway we found out it was my cousin thats told every one, i told him i was going to hospital for 5minutes but it wasnt anything serious (just to drop a wee sample off) and hes told every one this!!
Worst thing is no one asked him, he just came out with it. so my mum told one of my aunties that i lost it and no ones talking to us anymore. My mum told me yesterday and iv felt really guilty since.

Is this my fault do you think? I sat crying all night thinking about it

 

[libs]

Why is noone talking to you? Because you didn't tell them? You weren't pregnant v long hun and its your business when you decide to tell anyone.

Seeing as you lost the baby, anyone who has a problem should grow up and think of you and DH - and you can tell them I said that, and I'll come round their house and smack 'em if they carry on being such tw@ts

Let them get on with it and pretty soon they'll realise how selfish and obnoxious they're being

 

[jenna]

I dont know why, my mum said when she said i wasnt they kept saying she was lieing and they got snotty and said 'fine if its a secret' . Its not like i could keep a whole pregnancy from them, theyd find out when i thought it was right. Im sure theyd understand as the people that called all had kids. It just makes me really upset that my aunty has gone and told every one behind my back with out asking me 1st to see if its true.
She knows her son is a compulsive liar. My mum told me to not tell him anything in future, but i didnt tell him anything anyway!! All i said was i was going to drop something off at the hospital and ill be 5minutes!!

 

[Babylicious]

Aww hun thats awful It's definately not your fault, he should have gone shouting his mouth off

 

[budge]

My mum told me last night that she'd got a lot of calls off relatives saying they knew im pregnant. She told them i wasnt and one of my aunties start just saying it and saying it and said my mum was denying it because she was embarest about being a grandparent. . Most people said my mum was being a bitch not telling them and wont talk to us now. Anyway we found out it was my cousin thats told every one, i told him i was going to hospital for 5minutes but it wasnt anything serious (just to drop a wee sample off) and hes told every one this!!
Worst thing is no one asked him, he just came out with it. so my mum told one of my aunties that i lost it and no ones talking to us anymore. My mum told me yesterday and iv felt really guilty since.

Is this my fault do you think? I sat crying all night thinking about it

how bizarre.
Ask yourself if they are worth all this upset -

 

[Baileysmummy]

It certainly isnt your fault jenna..

what he did was nasty hun..

and as for your family falling out with you over this is just sad if you ask me.. they should be supporting you not judging you because you didnt tell them straight away!

have a

anyway most ppl know ppl keep things secret with pregnancys until you reach 12 weeks especially if youve lost more than 1.. tell them all to grow up and get over it, its not worth falling out over!

 

[jenna]

probably not, i cant see myself ever argueing face to face about this. I just feel guilty that no one will talk to any of us my mum sounded pretty upset that she wasnt invited to dinner, they usually go every sunday.

Its made me kinda think i dont even like them anymore. Even if i was pregnant, i dont want people calling every one else up and telling them when they havnt cleared it up with me. Its up to me to tell people if im pregnant. Thats all i need, 'you told them before me' or ' i had to find out from some one else' .

Every one stopped talking to one of my aunties when my grandad died because she was the first to leave at the funeral. my mum and dad (and me and my sister) are the only ones that talk to her. I dont want them same thing to happen again. I dont get why there being so childish!

 

[Babylicious]

Families suck hun, I don't have anything to do with mine except my big bro tim

 

[smurf]

Aawww this is the last thing you need right now.

 

[jenna]

I know its probably the wrong thing to do, but iv set my cousin up. Iv wrote in my LJ about something and that i dont want people to know right now. I know it sounds horrible but i really feel like i should confrunt him about this lieing but i dont want to keep going on about babies and pregnancy because i will say something i'll regret because ill get so angry.

Im kinda hopeing he says something to some one because its doing my head in.

 

[trixipaws]

its definately not ur fault.

 

[mishm]

Its not your fault hun u have nothing to feel gulity about
Familys can be so hard to get along with sometimes.